I understand that you ultimately want a Mommy/little boy dynamic between your wife and yourself. I can absolutely relate to that as well as the desire to incorporate diaper wearing into your relationship in some way. I believe you are going about this in the wrong way though.
I strongly urge you to stop pressuring her to participate in your regression by mothering you and/or providing you with diapers. You are bullying her by cornering her with the guilt of a panicking, crying partner who appears to be suddenly, after 15 years of marriage, terrified of wetting the bed. Instead of having a partner who rationally wants to seek a medical professional to what would appear to likely be a treatable condition she’s hearing the demands to ignore the potential seriousness of it and just wear diapers like a child. It’s unfair to not gain her full awareness and consent to what you are looking to achieve.
A situation such as this:
littleboy78 wrote: ↑4 years ago
Since telling my wife I want to be a little, she can't get into being my mommy. Yesterday day I told her I wanted to wear diapers. She said that's not normal.
littleboy78 wrote: ↑4 years ago
I felt like I had to pee. I started crying and begging her to get diapers. If was the first time I was truly in my little space. It was scary because I truly believe I would wet the bed. I begged her to get me diapers. I was so upset I almost started to hyperventilate. My amazing wife talked me down and comfort me. She didn't have time to get me any diapers yesterday but I order my first online last night. She is trying to understand my need. She is very worried about me.
Indicates that you are not respecting your wife in a reasonable way. You’re pushing for what you want with complete disregard for what she wants. You’re coming off as being irrational and mentally unwell. You should get up and use the toilet if you feel the need to urinate. If that isn’t doable then you need to purchase your own diapers and not force your wife into it when she’s clearly disinterested and concerned about these things.
Your marriage is important. Your wife is important. You need to decide how important her participation in your regression is and then evaluate if you are truly compatible for long-term happiness. If you truly feel that you
need her to participate then you have to have at least one very honest, very clear conversation with her about your wants. She needs to provide her consent without feeling pressured or cornered into it. If she declines then you need to accept that and back off from what you have been doing.
People deserve to be respected and not blindly manipulated for others’ gain. Consider how your wife feels. Talk with her about how she feels. Respect what she tells you and be mindful of her, her comfort, and her needs too. Marriage is not all about just getting what you want from another person.