- 6 years ago
#39981
- Name: You can call me Samantha
- Age: 32, my birthday was un August actually
- Height: Like 5'2"
- Weight: I'm fluffy, but working on getting shape.
- Location: IL
- Occupation: Currently, I'm a ghostwriter, but I do have my own ideas for a business or two
- Current Marital or Relationship Status: Single
- physically intimate orientation: Bi, I do have a preference for boys, though.
- What are some things that have led you to identifying as a Caregiver?
Hmm. Well, I started as a babygirl, actually. And due to a combination of bad Daddy Doms and outside trauma, I found myself wanting to protect and nurture that innocence in someone else. - What type of partner are you looking for here?
Um, honestly, every little is different. I will say, I love clingy, so long as the little understands that Momma will busy sometimes. - Are you open to long distance relationships or only local?
I don't really expect to find local. And this kind of relationship takes more time and care than most others, I think. - Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have:
Perfect match...someone sweet and soft, loving, honest. Honesty is most important. Caregivers aren't mind readers. - Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play?
Both. I can handle a little that doesn't want sensual play crossing over, especially if they're little age is very young. - Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships?
At this point, I'm not sure. I think, it could be really fun to have two littles. - How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic?
Jeez...since I was 18 or 19. - What are you looking for in a little?
...how is this different that the question asking me to describe my perfect match? - What do you think you have to offer to a little?
I'm very affectionate, loving and try to be even tempered. I'm very much a 'punishment needs to fit the crime' person. I haven't ever had a little, but I know I could be such a good Mommy. - What are some common punishments you use to discipline, correct, or guide?
Some punishments could be spanking, corner time, early bed time, etc. - What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy providing?
Cuddles. All of them. I love giving verbal praise. Maybe they get to pick out a treat. I think a box filled with random goodies would really fun. Coloring books, stuffies, maybe small dress up accessories. - Describe one of your favorite nonsexual fantasies or scenarios:
Brushing a little girls hair. Having her sit between my legs and brushing her hair while we talk, kissing her cheek.
For a boy, having his head in my lap while stroke his hair and talk.
Just something gentle. - What are some general nicknames you like to call your little?
I like kitten, little one, little girl/boy. There will probably be name specific nicknames as well. - What is one thing that all (Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver) Doms should know?
Just every little is different. They all need something different and bring different things with them. Good and bad. - What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant?
Gentleness and the amount of devotion you need to give your little. - What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
Reading, writing, cooking (I love baking), puppies (I don't have one, but would love one), and cute things - What are 3 movies you enjoy?
RENT, Spirited Away, Lilo and Stitch - What are 3 of your favorite foods?
I have pesky food allergies, but I do love soups and casseroles, and make really good cookies. - What are 3 of your favorite songs, bands, or musical artists?
Matchbox 20, Queen, and (currently) Adia - What is something you have recently learned?
Oh, that there are really cool crafty videos on YouTube. - What is your current biggest life achievement?
...surviving? Is that an accomplishment? - What do you think of a little who requires a large portion of your attention during your free time?
That's pretty much a little, right? These kinds of relationships are just different. I know when I was a babygirl, I wanted to be with my Daddy Dom All The Time. And I used to freak out if even a few hours passed without hearing from him. - During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
I will always do my best to explain things calmly. I know, some littles can get scared or anxious if they think their cg is mad. - What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?
Hmm. Don't be scared. I promise, I'll be gentle. I'm very new to this community, so all responses are welcome. If nothing else, maybe we can be friends.