- 9 months ago
It shouldn't be scary. Diapers are, ultimately, underwear.
If you bought some, best advice we can give you is try them on. We mean, there would not be another way of knowing.
We are active 24/7 diaper wearers, and use them for their intended purpose. We wear them under our clothes most of the time. Even the "thicker" ABDL ones are nicely covered under our clothes.
Out in public, people aren't staring at other people's crotches, and people aren't going around and pointing out that somebody else is wearing a diaper. For the most part diapers under clothes go unnoticed, unless some weirdo out there is specifically looking for them.
If wearing them for the first few occasions feels awkward, then just keep trying them out until you find comfort and familiarity in them. It took us a while to settle into a routine with them.
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