- 6 years ago
I agree with babyego, onesies help a lot, especially if you get one that, sadly, isn't cute but just look like a plain T or polo shirt.
I wear to work everyday, Comficare 24/7, so it is a thick diaper. Sometimes I can hardly get my pants over them. The best thing I have found for minimizing the sound/sight/smell is a latex brief that AC Medico made before they were bought by rearz. rearz fortunately still sells them, the "wide crotch latex brief, green" I think it is called. They are tight and fit like (literally) a latex glove. There is some extra effort involved (ideally shave your thighs or they may pull the hairs out, keep a big ziplock of babypowder and dust/store them in that. Makes them easier to put on and extends the life immensely...wet latex that dries against more latex tries to become one with it.) That pant is the most underappreciated item in AB imho.
Other concerns: cost, rash (I only get rashy from wet cloth diapers, I can wear wet disposables 24/7 without issue), leaks (they will happen and it will be at an inconvenient moment). The main thing is probably self-awareness. If you can over coming being self conscious and just own it, most people will never notice anyway. And if someone does, who is to say you didn't have prostate surgery, or whatnot. They will be more embarrassed than you if you own who you are.