- 1 year ago
#59056
Me and my little have been togeather for 6 months, we started the dd/lg around 2ish months ago, things started off really well but now they are on a decline. She is an amazing little but im not doing so well as a caregiver and for a good 2-3 weeks i havent been active with her as a caregiver as im lost. This dynamic works really well for us but im having trouble being a good daddy/caregiver, i really want to be but im lost and need advice. This is taking a impact on our relationship and i dont wanna lose her. A lot of days i forgot to remind her to take medication, i knock her out of little space cuz i talk about adult stuff, i fail to check in on her, im failling her as a daddy/caregiver. I dont wanna fail her anymore, i feel disappointment in myself for letting her down. I dont wanna let her down anymore, its hurting me deeply, some nights i dont enforce her bedtime and fail to give her punishments for that because i feel like its wrong or is gonna hurt her. I am completely the one in the wrong and failing her. She just wants to be taken care of, feel safe and protected & most of all feel loved n happy. Im taking all of that away from her by being a snailpoop daddy/caregiver so do any littles/caregivers/daddys have any advice or tips or show me the right way to be better, i wanna learn i just need some help.