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I've been a little for about a year now, maybe a little longer. I know my Cg/SO doesn't mean for me to feel bad, but I don't know how else I'm supposed to feel, because I can't control my regression. The more I try to, the more stressed I get. And he knows this, but at the same time, he talks to my regressed side as if it's the same as my big side. And he'll discuss things like money and jobs and people "screwing" us because he's mad. I love being there for him whether I'm big or little, but when I'm little it just makes me feel bad and scares me when he gets angry. So I don't know what to do. I guess I just need some advice.
LilPrincipessa wrote: 1 month ago…because I can't control my regression.
Hi! :hi:

Can you please give a little bit more detail? What does this statement mean more precisely? Just trying to understand the situation as best as possible so we can help.

In the meantime, this situation previously posted sounds similar to yours and may help if you want to read through it while you wait for us to answer you. Caregiver burnout is also a potential factor to consider since he’s making statements about being drained directly in relation to your regression and his caregiving.


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