[CrystalKitty]

Hi
I was wondering if anyone else has to be little in secret? I have started dating someone vanilla, and I'm really scared to show him this side of me

[LittleNorthwest]

It can be scary to show someone new such a personal part of you, I totally get it. But I will tell you that I would far rather have a delicate conversation with the new partner, than getting deep into a relationship and growing feelings for someone that could decide that this is not something they are okay with. Just remember, be proud of yourself in knowing who you are and what makes you happy. At the end of the day, loving yourself is key, letting someone else love you (even little you) is just icing on the cake.

Best of luck!