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#56438
My long distance boyfriend has accepted and supported me discovering age regression. He lets me call him daddy when I’m little and treats me as my little age when I regress. He’s great, honestly. The problem is, there is a three hour time difference and we both have a lot of stress in our lives.
What’s the best way to navigate respecting each other’s time management boundaries? Ideally that would involve having little/daddy time regularly. I feel like asking him every time I want/need to be little with daddy there is needy and annoying. And asking to schedule it feels weird. What should we do?
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You should act naturally.

Being a Little is fluidly transitioning between thoughts, feelings and manners of expression of and your Little age.

Our recommendation to the both of you is to "sprinkle" who you are throughout conversation. Littles have the wonderful quirk of being genuine and have their personality shine through any situation. Knowing that, you should rest assured that you're having Little time with your partner at almost any time in varying degrees.

We never set aside special time like that with Mommy when we were long distance for about 2 years before we moved in together. We had an amazing time talking to her about our shared Caregiver/Little dreams and goals. We effectively bonded through sharing our thoughts about what we'd be doing together throughout the day. We would talk about it on and off, whenever it felt right to do so and it wasn't out of the way to do so. Generally though, we just had regular conversation, trying our best to know each other.

Logically speaking here, biological children don't have conversation, don't text while they're busy being themselves. In a way it doesn't make sense to need to engage with another person for you to feel like a child. You don’t need to have a separate, dedicated experience to be yourself, enjoy your regressive feelings, and bond with your partner as your caregiver.

The more you set special provisions, the more it'll make difficult just having general bonding. Have fun and spend whatever time you can with them within reason. Be natural, let your partner be natural, and enjoy whatever comes of those times together.

We hope you can find what's right for you two!v :bheart: :pheart: :pinkh:

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