- 3 years ago
#56086
My whole life, people have seen me as weird and "creepy", even as a kid. They'll find any reason. Because I'm ugly, autistic, feminine, don't socialize well,...
But being a Little seems to add so much more to it. "An adult enjoying things meant for kids?? They must be a predator!!" is what they say.
Especially those of us who are male, we get all sorts of accusations. Maybe caregivers also get them,but I am not into CGL so I don't know.
It doesn't matter that I'm asexual and don't wanna be anywhere near actual kids, people will find some way to make me seem like a monster that must be avoided at all costs. Thus, I have noreal life friends, because people are just too close minded.
And for people who are physically intimate- as long as its only between consenting adults in private, and isn't hurting anyone, why would it matter what they do??
How do you deal with your interests and life being called creepy?
I learned that there's limited things I can like. Kid's video games are okay for adults to like apparently, so I can discuss those, but not much else. I just can't be my authentic self around anyone.
But being a Little seems to add so much more to it. "An adult enjoying things meant for kids?? They must be a predator!!" is what they say.
Especially those of us who are male, we get all sorts of accusations. Maybe caregivers also get them,but I am not into CGL so I don't know.
It doesn't matter that I'm asexual and don't wanna be anywhere near actual kids, people will find some way to make me seem like a monster that must be avoided at all costs. Thus, I have noreal life friends, because people are just too close minded.
And for people who are physically intimate- as long as its only between consenting adults in private, and isn't hurting anyone, why would it matter what they do??
How do you deal with your interests and life being called creepy?
I learned that there's limited things I can like. Kid's video games are okay for adults to like apparently, so I can discuss those, but not much else. I just can't be my authentic self around anyone.