[Deleted User 50154]

I'm completely new to this lifestyle, I am interested in this and felt this was apart of me for a long time. The one thing that upsets me is when I meet a Daddy and right away, it's always physically intimate. This is what turns me off immediately, because I want a true Daddy to get to know me, ask me questions about me and talk with me about things. Look after me, guide me, before physically intimate talk takes place. Always notice red flags right away and it seems like I have a hard time trying to establish a connection. For a long time I thought it was me, yet anytime I'm interested in any Daddy, sex is brought up almost immediately. Is this something that supposed to happen? Before anything goes, sex is brought up right away. This is not what I'm looking for. I hope this is not what this lifestyle is completely about. It sort of bums me out anytime I meet any Daddy. I'm still having hope though and still focusing on myself until I meet the right Daddy. Right now though I'm feeling very disappointed.

[tirednsmol]

Try not to be disheartened. For a lot of people this is just a kink and not a lifestyle, all they'll care about is the physically intimate aspects and that's okay but obviously that's not what you're looking for. It's great (although dissapointing) that you're noticing the red flags. I wouldn't say it's normal for someone to just bring up sex straight away unless they're underlining exactly what they're looking for, it is quite disrespectful. Sadly it is common though. It takes a lot of time to get through the ones who are in it for sex as opposed to the ones who are looking for a full on dynamic but it will happen. This site is definitley more little based, joining other sites and groups online that have more cgs on there might be easier - unless you're already doing that then sadly I think its just a matter of reaching out, properly investigating until your confident in one person x This was a bit of a ramble but I hope it was some what helpful x