- 5 years ago
#51273
Sometimes people talk about "fake" Daddies or "fake" littles in more ways than just general identity. Sometimes they are talking about the idea that these people are just "using" people in the community to gain something. Perhaps that means pretending to fall into the role they've taken as a label or perhaps that means pretending to have real mutual interest in their partner.
Many times we hear about "fake" Daddies using littles for physically intimate gratification and quick-fix intimacy moments. Often it's complained that they then "ghost" or disappear from contact with their partner.
Many times we hear about "fake" Mommies who require payment to become their little online or for short-term play sessions over the phone.
Many times we hear about "fake" littles who supposedly led on a Caregiver-type and requested many gifts, coverage for diaper expenses, high allowances, or expensive care requirements (such as high-end, custom-made items).
Do you believe this is actually a real problem within the community or do you think it's an issue few and far between, with people who unfortunately do fall into those traps simply being the loudest people on places like forums and blogs? Have you ever experienced any of these situations and, if so, did it hurt your perception of the community or question your belonging? If you feel it's a valid suggestion, do you have any ideas of how we could reduce this sort of abuse within the community? If you don't feel it's a situation that does happen then how do you feel these complaints begin and what do you think the motive(s) might be to claiming these things?
Many times we hear about "fake" Daddies using littles for physically intimate gratification and quick-fix intimacy moments. Often it's complained that they then "ghost" or disappear from contact with their partner.
Many times we hear about "fake" Mommies who require payment to become their little online or for short-term play sessions over the phone.
Many times we hear about "fake" littles who supposedly led on a Caregiver-type and requested many gifts, coverage for diaper expenses, high allowances, or expensive care requirements (such as high-end, custom-made items).
Do you believe this is actually a real problem within the community or do you think it's an issue few and far between, with people who unfortunately do fall into those traps simply being the loudest people on places like forums and blogs? Have you ever experienced any of these situations and, if so, did it hurt your perception of the community or question your belonging? If you feel it's a valid suggestion, do you have any ideas of how we could reduce this sort of abuse within the community? If you don't feel it's a situation that does happen then how do you feel these complaints begin and what do you think the motive(s) might be to claiming these things?
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