- 1 week ago
I'm also going through this right now. In fact, this is the reason I joined this forum so I could figure out how to deal with this. I've always been a daddy, but just recently I discovered what that actually means, and I'm petrified that I'm going to lose this freedom to be myself with whomever I end up dating next. I'm sorry you are dealing with this, because its scary and it sucks. But knowing that others are going through this, or have gone through this, definitely helps me know I will get through this. Hopefully, this will help you as well. I have to keep telling myself that time heals all wounds, and this is a good time to work on myself.
Just know you aren't alone, and there are people that understand you and want the best for you. I have to believe that myself... And I have faith that I will date again, and it will be a person that understands, and cares, about me and my needs.