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My mommy/babygirl broke up with me after years of being together and it's really gonna stay that way this time she's fr idk how to deal with this but really I'm scared that I'ma always be alone now cause I can't just come out and do the things we did with her like with just anyone I'm scared I'm never gonna get to be me again with anyone else please help
I found myself in a similar situation a few years ago. My daddy broke up with me, and I was so devastated. It was my first CG/L relationship and I thought the same thing you do, that I will never meet anyone again who I can engage in a CG/L dynamic with. It felt like such a huge part of me and I didn't know how to take care of myself without the support of someone else in that way. Lucky for us there are plenty of places online (such as DateCGL) where you can meet people who are interested in the same lifestyle. As for myself, I was able to organically meet somebody in real life and once we developed a connection and before it got too serious, I explained to him the kind of relationship dynamic that I need and educated him on DD/LG. He was accepting and open, and now I'm in a very healthy and loving situation. Sometimes, certain people are in our lives to help us learn. Think of all the lessons you have learned and the things about yourself you have discovered while in your relationship. I promise it will be okay, and you are not half of a couple, you are a whole person. You are who you are, and you are you. You don't need anybody else to continue to be yourself. :remind:
I'm also going through this right now. In fact, this is the reason I joined this forum so I could figure out how to deal with this. I've always been a daddy, but just recently I discovered what that actually means, and I'm petrified that I'm going to lose this freedom to be myself with whomever I end up dating next. I'm sorry you are dealing with this, because its scary and it sucks. But knowing that others are going through this, or have gone through this, definitely helps me know I will get through this. Hopefully, this will help you as well. I have to keep telling myself that time heals all wounds, and this is a good time to work on myself.

Just know you aren't alone, and there are people that understand you and want the best for you. I have to believe that myself... And I have faith that I will date again, and it will be a person that understands, and cares, about me and my needs.
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