[MyMrRight]

I have always been curious and want to know if couples in the lifestyle go in as their roles. Does a Caregiver take their Little to an appointment and handle everything? Especially if someone like myself gets really high anxiety and will avoid going at all cost so long as I'm not dying. I would like to know if any couples have done this and if it was effective in easing a Little's peace of mind.

[MissAlice]

I have really bad social anxiety, so my Daddy used to take me to all of my appointments, and help me go shopping and things like that. (we broke up recently :c) It was really helpful honestly; my anxiety gets so bad when I'm by myself. He would usually do most of the talking for me and always held my hand so I wouldn't get nervous.

[MissAlice]

I have really bad social anxiety, so my Daddy used to take me to all of my appointments, and help me go shopping and things like that. (we broke up recently :c) It was really helpful honestly; my anxiety gets so bad when I'm by myself. He would usually do most of the talking for me and always held my hand so I wouldn't get nervous.

[MommaWren]

So, like most things, it's different for everyone. Of course, I recommend for a little and their caregiver to talk specifically about how they would like to handle things like that. Giving you a for instance from my life, my little is perfectly capable of talking to people and handling his own business. But! It makes him feel loved and cared for when I do it. So, I often schedule all his appointments, pick up any medications, bring him to the appointments, etc. I also often will order food for him while out at a restaurant. But we did discuss this before it happened so that I could make sure this was something he felt comfortable with (beyond it just being easier because he doesn't have to do anything ;P ). For us, it's kind of an under cover way to play out the CGL dynamic.