Short backstory, we have been seeing each other for a few weeks. She is poly and has several other active relationships. I see her about once a week but we communicate almost every day. I am on a rewards system with set expectations that I am free to do to get tokens to redeem said rewards. This honestly makes me feel euphoric and happy when I do an expectation. I love the praise I get and the feeling of making her proud. My rewards are pretty great too. I can get my hair braided, cuddles, my favorite desserts, videogame/card game time, movies, outings to go get tea or comics, its a pretty great thing I have got to experience so far.
I guess the main point of this post though is there anything else I should be doing aside from my set expectations? I mean I let her know what I have done for the day, tell her what a great mommy she is, and I miss her regularly throughout the week. She makes me feel safe, secured, loved, respected, I just don't want to let her down or make her disappointed in me. Any and all help would be much appreciated.