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How do I find people to talk to who understand what it is to be a Little?

Posted: |March 19th, 2022|, 12:16 pm
by Mumpty
Hi, I have been reading about daddys and littles and believe that i am a little. I have a tendency to act little when i am stressed but have no one I can talk to about this. I put little faces, want to cuddle a toy, i have a few stuffies that i love and will talk too. How do i find someone who understands. I feel very alone.

Re: How do I find people to talk to who understand what it is to be a Little?

Posted: |March 19th, 2022|, 11:22 pm
by Motherly
Welcome to the community! :hi:

You’ll find that most of the community exists primarily online. That being said, you’re more than welcome to interact on our forum to gain a sense of community, to exchange knowledge with those who identify similarly, or to utilize in expressing your regressive feelings in an inviting and encouraging space:

https://www.littlespaceonline.com/viewforum.php?f=4

Our live chat is available at all hours and costs nothing to join:

https://www.littlespaceonline.com/app.php/chatrules

Our friendship forum is open to posting for finding local or long-distance friends:

https://www.littlespaceonline.com/viewforum.php?f=22

There are potential local groups or munches (public meet ups over lunch) in your area, and there are a few large scale events that happen yearly. Those live group meetings have often been altered drastically due to COVID, and the general safety as well as COVID safety measures of these group meetings in these times may be questionable so I’d encourage you to first explore the community in our digital safe space online before attending larger groups.

Again, welcome and I hope you enjoy the lovely connections you can make here! :hugs:

Re: How do I find people to talk to who understand what it is to be a Little?

Posted: |March 27th, 2022|, 6:58 pm
by BrownEyedGirl
Hi! I'm in a similar situation. I read a DDLG book a while ago and realized I might be a little. I have been reading a bunch of different DDLG books to try and figure out where I fit and am also looking to talk to people about it!

Re: How do I find people to talk to who understand what it is to be a Little?

Posted: |March 28th, 2022|, 3:46 pm
by LittleEss
I have found that the image of cgl relationships in romance novels differ greatly from real world. I believe the community is much more diverse but I also recognise that the literature caters to the fantasy of fully emerging oneself in the little/care giver experience even if it wouldn’t be possible or even desirable in real life. Basically, books are nice (and I read plenty of cgl romance) but don’t expect your experience or the community to be like the books. And remember that your needs and experience as a little is just as valid weather it’s represented in literature or not.