Amii wrote: â3 years ago
is that what a little is like?
Maybe. What youâve described doesnât necessarily make a person a Little but it could be related.
Littles are people and have a lot of variation. Being a little is a large component of their personality, but their interests and preferences can still differ. As an example, not all Littles are looking for a partner who is âdominantâ, but some are certainly interested in that.
Nobody knows if youâre a Little but yourself. It takes some exploration but Iâm confident you know the answer.
Youâre welcome to check out our resource that helps you
identify if youâre a Little.
Amii wrote: â3 years ago
how do i gonna tell my bf that iam one
Iâve always had extremely good experiences with telling people that Iâm a bit of a Mommy. I feel like most people in the community who are in fresh relationships also find acceptance from their partner, even if their partner doesnât take on a role or âparticipateâ. If youâre reasonable then your partner probably will be too.
Itâs my opinion that it probably isnât too soon since youâve probably already displayed some of your little tendencies (and heâs likely embraced them). I donât believe we have to hide ourselves as much as it feels. I also feel like itâs often better to note it somewhat early into the relationship so there is no ongoing fear of the person leaving when learning the term. After all, if being a little is a part of your personality and, essentially, who you are and this person is absolutely unwilling to at least passively accept who you are then how compatible are you really?
Iâm not sure that the reveal should be done so seriously though. With that being said, I feel like a casual, playful âinterruptionâ when you two are having a particularly good, lighthearted time by saying, âIâm a little, thatâs why Iâm goofy sometimes. Iâm not sure if you knew the name of it. I just love to be silly!â Plan it out a bit though so you have some resources handy you could provide to him just in case he says, âWait...uh...I need to read more about this stuff!â
We also do have some
suggestions when choosing to reveal your Little personality.
Amii wrote: â3 years ago
...and i want to be cared of...?
Iâm a firm believer that you really shouldnât suggest your partner intentionally take on a certain role or have specific interactions with you when youâre feeling regressive. (If your partner is interested without you promoting it then it can develop more naturally over time, without strain to âperformâ as a role.)
Daddies are Daddies because of their personality just like
Littles are Littles because of their personality. It isnât something they just pick up because someone says they should.
So, I wouldnât really jump immediately into committing a declared Daddy/little partnership even if he expresses interest. Let the information dance around in his head some, casually bring up your littlespace acknowledgment every now and again, and just enjoy time together as your relationship develops. Let him see how you are and do some self-discovery and exploration without feeling stressed to conform to some role.
Luckily, a Little does not
need to have a Caregiver to be able to be fulfilled as a Little.
Amii wrote: â3 years ago
he will think iam weard?
Encourage him to read some resources you provide to him. Be open to answering his questions. Give him patience in case his first reaction is confusion.
Here is our
resource section that youâre welcome to read through and share.