New, inexperienced, and recently discovered adult babies, regressors, littles, and Caregivers ask for perspectives, advice, tips, and information from more knowledgeable friends. Not introductions!
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I have actually been a member for awhile but I've been too afraid to post anything. The one main reason is I think I passed up my chance. I am too old to even be considering this change. I am 57 and somehow I think I'm too old.

I am a late bloomer. I was with the love of my life for 27 years. She was my lover, my best friend, and my leather daddy. Sadly 6 years ago she passed away.

Currently I am married again but I'm miserable. We are nothing more than roommates. Haven't sleep in the same bed together for years. I am trapped.

I am also a full time student and soon to graduate to get my BS and then to get my Master's. Once I do I am leaving. I can not see myself living this lie for the rest of my life!!

I have always been told that I am "childlike" not "childish", there is a difference. I adore cartoons, especially Disney. I love Barbies!! I could play all day. And baby dolls are my ultimate fav!!! Love them!!! I love Christmas! It's my all time favorite holiday. And Halloween too.
I miss being taking care of. Now I am the one who is forced into taking care of everything and I hate it. Sure I can do it for awhile but I need my "down" time too. My time to let go of the reins and hand them over.

I love all animals. I am a huge animal lover. I'm full-blooded Italian and love to cook. I also love playing video games on my PS4.

So, what does everyone think? Too late for me? For 27 years I lived the BDSM lifestyle but I think now this may be where I belong - maybe?

Thanks for reading,
As long as you can still consent, you are never too old to be a Little. You also don't have to have a caregiver to go into your Little Space. My bio age is 38 and am just entering the Little community with my 40 year old Hubby. I will always be Little minded, so I see this as a positive step in my life. I wish I did this a long time ago. I would've been happier sooner!

I'm sorry you're having a difficult time in your life right now. Maybe you can schedule in some quality Little Space time to cope until your situation gets better?
Thank you so much for your reply. I want to explore this part of me but have always felt I was getting too old. I am going to continue to learn and maybe someday I will find my caregiver. If not I hope to find like minded friends.
Thanks again for your reply.

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