New, inexperienced, and recently discovered adult babies, regressors, littles, and Caregivers ask for perspectives, advice, tips, and information from more knowledgeable friends. Not introductions!
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#54824
I have actually been a member for awhile but I've been too afraid to post anything. The one main reason is I think I passed up my chance. I am too old to even be considering this change. I am 57 and somehow I think I'm too old.

I am a late bloomer. I was with the love of my life for 27 years. She was my lover, my best friend, and my leather daddy. Sadly 6 years ago she passed away.

Currently I am married again but I'm miserable. We are nothing more than roommates. Haven't sleep in the same bed together for years. I am trapped.

I am also a full time student and soon to graduate to get my BS and then to get my Master's. Once I do I am leaving. I can not see myself living this lie for the rest of my life!!

I have always been told that I am "childlike" not "childish", there is a difference. I adore cartoons, especially Disney. I love Barbies!! I could play all day. And baby dolls are my ultimate fav!!! Love them!!! I love Christmas! It's my all time favorite holiday. And Halloween too.
I miss being taking care of. Now I am the one who is forced into taking care of everything and I hate it. Sure I can do it for awhile but I need my "down" time too. My time to let go of the reins and hand them over.

I love all animals. I am a huge animal lover. I'm full-blooded Italian and love to cook. I also love playing video games on my PS4.

So, what does everyone think? Too late for me? For 27 years I lived the BDSM lifestyle but I think now this may be where I belong - maybe?

Thanks for reading,
Lorie
#54829
As long as you can still consent, you are never too old to be a Little. You also don't have to have a caregiver to go into your Little Space. My bio age is 38 and am just entering the Little community with my 40 year old Hubby. I will always be Little minded, so I see this as a positive step in my life. I wish I did this a long time ago. I would've been happier sooner!

I'm sorry you're having a difficult time in your life right now. Maybe you can schedule in some quality Little Space time to cope until your situation gets better?
#54832
Thank you so much for your reply. I want to explore this part of me but have always felt I was getting too old. I am going to continue to learn and maybe someday I will find my caregiver. If not I hope to find like minded friends.
Thanks again for your reply.

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