- 2 months ago
All Littles are different, from what I can see. I have frequent Little tendencies and they are interwoven through my life. I usually keep it at bay while working... usually. Coworkers tend to treat me like their little sister, like when the ED nurse just gave me my little rat stuffie friend. It doesn't help that I dress in rainbows and unicorns at work.
Even though I have frequent Little tendencies, I still talk about adult tasks and handle them. Sometimes, I stay "Little" while , other times I don't. It's like a flick of a switch with me, while other Littles have to make an conscious effort to enter their Little Space and they act their bio age the rest of the time. I don't know if having frequent Little tendencies is a good thing for everyone, because people often look shocked at me and don't always treat me on their level. But, it's just who I've always been and it would be really hard to change my personality now.
I think people fantasize about being a little 24/7 but only a very small amount of people actually can. We have to do adult things to survive. We gotta work and make that money, gotta clean our home and feed our kids or pets, and gotta be supportive of our family members and handle serious relationship stuff. So it's okay to be adult sometimes, if not most of the time.
If you have more adult tendencies than Little tendencies, that's totally okay. I think it would be good to explore your Little Space and see what you do and don't want to do, how long you like to be Little, in what environments, and what triggers you into your Little Space. Maybe for you, you'll be a weekend Little and/or only when you plan to be. I'm new to the community and I'm exploring getting a pacifier. I'm a little of 5-7ish, so I won't use it all of the time, but I want to check it out and see if I like it. Hubby doesn't really want me to get one, but this is my journey, so I'll just use it when I'm in my Little Space and he's not interacting at the time.
This is your journey too. You get to define it. You get to define your Little experiences.
Love and happy faces for all!