- 6 years ago
#36137
- Name: Jay
- Age: 33
- Height: 6' 2"
- Weight: 160lbs
- Location: DFW Texas, USA
- Occupation: Finance & Firefighter
- Current Marital or Relationship Status: Single
- physically intimate orientation: Straight
- What are some things that have led you to identifying as a Caregiver?
I have been involved in the lifestyle for 10+ years starting out as a dom until I was introduced to the dd/lg world and fell in love. It to me is the complete picture of who I am: loving, sweet and supportive but stern and strict in other things. - What type of partner are you looking for here?
I am looking for a little who wants to be loved and cherished who has that look that her Daddy is her everything. - Are you open to long distance relationships or only local?
I would prefer local of course but I am open to a LDR with the intent of me relocating my little princess if the relationship evolves to that point. - Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have:
A sweet fun loving little who feels free to be herself, isn't afraid to talk about anything with her Daddy and understands he's just trying to make her the best girl possible. Someone who loves the outdoors and animals and kids. I dream of my perfect little one who will cherish our cuddle times together as well as our playtimes. - Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play?
physically intimate - Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships?
I don't share with other men but I'm not opposed to little playdates. - How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic?
Over 10+ years - What are you looking for in a little?
Answered above - What do you think you have to offer to a little?
I am an experienced Daddy who fully understands the responsibility when a little calls him sir or Daddy and everything that comes with. I will set rules and guidelines and punish appropriately for transgressions but I will also love, cuddle and cherish you at all times. I will be your punisher and slayer of monsters all in one. - What are some common punishments you use to discipline, correct, or guide?
It really varies based on the transgression and the little but they generally are:
Spankings
Cummies denial (littles or getting any of Daddy's)
Cummies overload
Timeout
Losing tv/movies/coloring books
Writing a story on what she did wrong and why she was bad
Writing lines - What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy providing?
New stuffies
Sweets
New coloring books/movies/books/etc
Extra cuddle time
Cummies
New toys
Longer tv/movie time past her bedtime - Describe one of your favorite nonsexual fantasies or scenarios:
Sitting on the couch with my little one curled up in my lap wearing knee socks, some cute panties and a tshirt watching a movie together while we eat popcorn - What are some general nicknames you like to call your little?
Little one, princess, angel, little girl - What is one thing that all (Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver) Doms should know?
What the responsibilities of being a true Daddy really mean - What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant?
The added sensuality and dependency that a little has of her Daddy - What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
Camping
Cooking
Hiking
Watching movies
Shopping with my little one (it's fun shopping for her and having her model outfits for me all day) - What are 3 movies you enjoy?
Star Wars
Fast and Furious series
Pixar/Disney movies - What are 3 of your favorite foods?
Sushi
Steak & Potatoes
Mac & Cheese with hotdogs - What are 3 of your favorite songs, bands, or musical artists?
Eminem
Pentatonix
Justin Timberlake - What is something you have recently learned?
Finished my EMT certifications - What is your current biggest life achievement?
My kids, yes I have two kiddos (joint custody, they're 4 & 8) and I know I probably lost a lot of you here but they are one of my biggest achievements - What do you think of a little who requires a large portion of your attention during your free time?
I love it. I want to be the center of her world as she would be for me. - During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
It depends on the issue. If she's just being bratty I'll give her a stern look and bed her over my knee. If it's something serious I will talk it out and work to understand both sides before coming to a mutual agreement for resolution. - What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?
I look forward to finding my forever little one and showing her that she can be loved and cherished.