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#29355
  • Name:Micheal
  • Age:29
  • Height:5'10"
  • Weight:180 lbs
  • Location:US, east coast
  • Occupation: Chef
  • physically intimate orientation:Bisexual
  • What type of partner are you looking for here?
    I'm looking for a little girl OR little boy (though I have a bit of specific type of boy, not too masculine. Love effeminate boys, also FTM trans, <3)
  • Are you open to long distance relationships or only local?
    Given that we would be meeting here I think v/t is the only way to start, honestly. I think wherever it goes from there depends on the specific little/relationship that develops. I have some experience with online/vt so I'm happy to start there.
  • Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have:
    I do enjoy a feisty little, but I think within the realms of an online interaction, I would really prefer a more submissive one. Also I am open to beginners but again, I would prefer at this point in time a somewhat experienced little, that's very open minded and willing to explore the deeper, kinkier realms of the lifestyle with me.
  • Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play?
    I am a very physically intimate person so it is a big part of my role as a caregiver. I'm not opposed to chatting with an asexual little but as far as connecting goes, some sexuality is pretty much necessary for me.
  • Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships?
    I am a serial monogamist, every relationship whether d/s or not has been mono. So I am of course open to that. But also I would love to explore poly; possibly with sister/brother littles.
  • How long have you been into the BeDeeSeM scene?
    I've been a interested for about 10 years. Did some research and just chatted within the community at that point. I've been a dom for about 5-6 years now, and within the past 2 years gotten really into the roll of daddy.
  • How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic?
    See above.
  • What are you looking for in a little?
    Open-minded. Fun, playful. Loyal and obedient. Eloquence, as we will proceed largely through RP, at the very least the ability to type well grammatically (that's not to say that some typing can be intentionally altered when in littlespace.)
  • What do you think you have to offer to a little?
    Experience (both as a dominant/daddy and sexually.) I'm caring and compassionate when needed, love cuddling and snuggles. Trust and comfort, so that they can explore their personal kinks and desires.
  • If into physically intimate scenes, what are some kinks you enjoy?
    Pain play, restraints, exhibitionism, voyeurism, gags, analplay, tails, not much that I DON'T like, really.
  • What are your hard limits when it comes to play?
  • What are some common punishments you use to discipline, correct, guide, or seduce?
    Spanking, of course. Corner time/time out. Other than that, particular punishments vary depending on the little/their needs. Guidance and seduction only require a stern voice. And a little bit of teasing, sometimes.
  • What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy providing?
    Again, a lot of these depend greatly on the dynamic of the relationship. Of course hugs and cuddle time. If the little is willing to receive them I always enjoy gifts (particularly collars, tails, charms and things that they can wear for me when playing, or that signify their loyalty to their daddy.)
  • What are some general (naughty or nice) nicknames you like to call your little?
    Almost always depends on the person. Baby is a general one but I usually don't stick with it, I'll come up with something that feels right for the person.
  • If into physically intimate scenes, if a safe word is used during a scene then how do you proceed?
    Shut down the situation/scenario, offer the little hugs and comfort, and then ask what exactly made them uncomfortable and what we can do to make that better.
  • What is one thing that all (Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver) Doms should know?
    That all d/s relationships whether ddlg or any other form of BeDeeSeM absolutely starts with a foundation of trust and understanding of the other persons wants/needs. It's about learning what each other likes and dislikes and respecting those boundaries.
  • What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant?
    In a word; nurture.
  • If into physically intimate scenes, what are 5 physically intimate things you enjoy?
    I have a thing for collarbones/hipbones. Love biting. special burst control. Spanking/other pain play (varying by little preference.) Hearing my little moan for daddy.
  • What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
  • What are 3 movies you enjoy?
    All of them. Comic book movies, particularly Marvel. Horror especially suspense (great for snuggling and keeping my little safe :) And gotta go with a classic, Aladdin.
  • What do you think of a little who requires a large portion of your attention during your free time?
    I'm not opposed to it but that's all very dependent on the dynamic of the relationship.
  • During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
    If it's just a silly argument I'll punish them playfully for back talking. But of course for a more serious argument I would respect their opinion and state how I feel and come to a resolve and move past it, respectfully.
  • What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?
    I'm an experienced dominant looking to delve deeper into the role of daddy. I'm very open minded so don't be afraid to message me about any subject.

    And I can't stress this more,
    I'm not looking for a one off thing, no flings, I wan't a serious submissive, ready to commit to a role as little if we match, have similar interests and kinks, and just generally enjoy each others company!

    Message me and let's get to know each other?
By TinybookBug
#29616
Hi I liked your post and you sound interesting. Check out my profile and personal and if you think we would be a good match to feel free to pm me. :) :hi:
#30044
hello Sir, i agree with the things you've said and the way you'd like to proceed (i'm a big RPer, too). the way you discipline matches the ways i like to be punished, and so does the way you love. please do write me. thank you!x
#32127
Can a daddy get a bump?

Bump, bump.

Go bump in the night?

Bumpity bump bump bump.

Please, sir, may I have a bump?

It bumps the post on the interwebs or else it gets the hose again.

..bump?
By jasonsanfranx
#30163
charliegirl wrote:hello Sir, i agree with the things you've said and the way you'd like to proceed (i'm a big RPer, too). the way you discipline matches the ways i like to be punished, and so does the way you love. please do write me. thank you!x
Hi Charlie

I saw your profile and had to message you as you match my interests completely.

My name is Jason, I'm a early 40s Daddy from San Francisco. I work in tech as a project manager.

I enjoy th outdoors - hiking and jogging - but love being lazy with beside as much: watching movies or reading and snuggling.

I'v been a daddy for almost 10 years so I do have experience. I'm kind but can certainly be firm when discipline is required.

You sound like an amazing little girl. I hope to hear back from you.

--j
#32318
Helloooo~

I dunno if you're still lookin' for a little... but I'm an FtM little boy from Cali! It's pretty rare to find a mommy or daddy that's looking for something other than a straight girl.

I'd love to get to know you, even though I'm not local to you.

I'm sure that as a chef, you get to make all the yummy things! That's super cool
#32334
You seem like a very interesting person.

Unfortunately I see a few problems that might stop the two of us from matching. Some of these problems include distance, grammar, experience and commitment.

These things aside, I am a feminine male with plenty of experience in the world of kink. If you would be willing to be patient with me I think that I would rather enjoy talking to you. Although it will most likely be geared more towards friendship then a committed relationship.

I do understand if this is not somthing you are interested in and I wish you the best of luck.

Sent from my LGLS992 using Tapatalk

By wittlecutiepie
#42309
Hi i’m a little boy (FTM) my name is Ryan and we have a lot of the same interests like comic book movies I’m a big marvel fan my favorite superhero is Ironman. I am asexual but i’m up to giving it a shot hopefully you haven’t found a little yet and I might still have a chance to be your little.
#44623
Hey, Michael. Did you ever find a little? I'm a trans little boy, and besides being a sub, I'm a person who enjoys something that appears to be painful, tedious, or humiliating. If you haven't found yourself a little yet, it'd be great to talk with you since I think we'd get on well. It sounds like we have a lot in common in terms of what we're into or seeking to try, and some differences which could keep things interesting at least. Even if you've got a little, it'd be cool to talk and see if we connect as potential friends. By the way, your profile pic is cool.

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