physically intimate Orientation: Heterosexual
USA East, Pennsylvania specifically.
Current Marital or Relationship Status:
What type of partner are you looking for here?
I am looking for a female little to take care of, preferably one who wears diapers already or is interested in that as a 24/7 aspect of the dynamic. I realize that is not for everyone, but it's important to me as a caregiver.
Are you open to long distance relationships or only local matches?
Either is fine, although I would prefer to meet in person at some point if that is doable for both parties.
Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships?
I am very strictly monogamous.
Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have:
My ideal partner as a Little is curious, likes to try new things, and enjoys learning about the world around them. It's alright if you're shy or not very adventurous, but good communication is very important to me as well.
What are some things that have led you to identifying as a Caregiver?
I've always been the "dad friend" of friend groups, people frequently come to me for advice on various issues, and I've always been the one to take up the rear of the group on long walks or hikes to make sure that no one gets left behind. I'm a very caring individual, and I enjoy helping others as much as I can.
Are you into physically intimate and/or nonsexual Caregiver/little regression?
I'm not a very physically intimate person. I lean a lot more toward the non-physically intimate end of the spectrum, especially since I'd need to have a connection with the person before any physically intimate activity. I'm not opposed to that with the right person, however.
How long have you identified as a Caregiver?
For about 10 years.
Are you a Caregiver that likes to or expects to punish your Little?
No. I really dislike having to punish Littles, but I will if it's necessary. I operate on a 3-strike system. First, I give reminders about the rules. Second, is another reminder along with an explanation of why the rule exists and what will happen if the rule breaking continues. And Third is actual punishment. I really dislike physical punishments, so I tend to only use those only in extreme cases.
What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy providing to your Little?
Words of affirmation and praise, primarily, but I definitely like giving gifts as well. However, I am NOT a sugar daddy, and while I like to give gifts, it isn't something that a prospective partner should expect all the time. What I normally do is set up a sticker/reward chart and then my little one earns stickers through good behavior. Then, when they've earned enough stickers, they earn a reward.
What do you think you have to offer to a partner?
I'm a great listener and a very attentive partner who makes time to communicate and spend quality time together, whether that be online or irl. My little is the most important person in my life, and they will be treated accordingly once we've established that connection.
Describe one of your favorite nonsexual fantasies or scenarios:
Honestly, going on a nice hike or to the fair with my Little would be wonderful. Even a cozy day at home would be fine, just enjoying each other's company and doing fun activities together.
What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy?
I really enjoy cycling and rock-climbing and exercise in general. I'm not in bad shape, but there's definitely room for improvement. I also enjoy writing and playing videogames. I've been trying to learn how to cook some more complex dishes as well, but that will take some practice.
What are 3 movies or TV shows you enjoy?
Tenet was an amazing film! As far as TV shows, the ones I've seen most recently are Agents of Shield, and The 100, and I enjoyed both of those as well.
What are 3 of your favorite foods?
Burritos, pizza, and pineapples.
What are 3 of your favorite songs, bands, or musical artists?
I'm a huge fan of early 00's music, so All Time Low, Panic! At the Disco, and Set It Off are three of my favorite bands, along with many more!
What is something you have recently learned?
I've recently learned how to use a lot of new tools for work! I started a job in a completely new field for me, so it's definitely been a pretty intensive time for learning and trying new things, but I'm enjoying it so far.
What is your current biggest life achievement?
Getting certified as an EMT
During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?
Normally I'm a very calm person, so I don't shout or anything like that. I do my best to hear the other person out and try to get to the root cause of the argument and talk things out, but I also understand that sometimes people need to be left alone to think and I am okay with giving space for that too.
What do you think of being partnered to a Little who requires a large portion of your attention?
I'm completely fine with that, as long as the Little understands that I might not be able to respond immediately, especially if I am at work; my job is very strict about not having cell phones while working.
What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?
I am not a religious person, but I come from a family that is, so I understand if that is a big part of life for you and I won't belittle your beliefs.