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By littlestjaybird
#1027
  • Name: Janie/Jay
  • Age: 20
  • Height: 5'4"
  • Weight: Curvy/Thick
  • Location: California
  • Occupation: Sociology Student
  • Current Marital or Relationship Status: Single :c
  • physically intimate orientation: Bisexual
  • What type of partner are you looking for here? I'm looking for a Daddy Dom
  • Are you open to long distance relationships or only local? Long distance is just fine with me, as is local.
  • Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have: Tall (hardly a difficult feat...), kind, patient, understanding, intelligent, funny, a bit firm when necessary
  • Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play? Both
  • Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships? monogamous
  • How long have you been into the BeDeeSeM scene? a couple of weeks
  • How long have you been into the Caregiver/little dynamic? around two years
  • What are you looking for in a Caregiver Dom? love and protection/security
  • What do you think you have to offer to a Caregiver? I'm sweet (so I've been told :3), and I'm loving and always willing to listen and be there for my Caregiver
  • If into physically intimate scenes, what are some kinks you do not enjoy? watersports/goldenshowers and scatplay
  • What are your hard limits when it comes to play? I'm not sure, but nothing that would involve yelling or too many loud and sudden sounds
  • What are some punishments you enjoy when being disciplined, corrected, guided, or seduced? Spanking for discipline and correction, teasing, hair pulling, and biting for guiding and seduction
  • What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy? Cuddles, ice cream, stickers, and candy
  • Describe one of your favorite physically intimate or nonsexual fantasies: physically intimate: things like teacher/student. Nonsexual: simply being held and watching tv whenever I feel sad.
  • What are some general (naughty or nice) nicknames you like to call your Caregiver? Daddy, sir, love, dear/dearie
  • What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant? I'm not entirely sure...but I would imagine the amount of adoration and care and protection shared between a Caregiver and their little
  • What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy? Reading fiction, writing, drawing and colouring, video games, and swimming
  • What are 3 movies you enjoy? Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home, Pretty Woman, and the Jungle Book
  • What are your 3 of your favorite foods? Ziti pasta, ham, and sushi
  • During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react? Either try to sort the problem out and end the disagreement/argument, or simply shut down; I don't do extremely well with confrontation :c
  • What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself? First off, I'm black. Second off, I've never had a Caregiver/Daddy before and would need to be sure that anyone interested is capable of being patient. Third, I have social anxiety, which can cause me to seem standoffish (or just plain awkward), but I promise that's not how I intentionally am :3
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