physically intimate Orientation: Bisexual
Current Marital or Relationship Status: Single
Approximate Regression Age Range:: 4 and 13
What type of partner are you looking for here? A daddy primarily, if he was also a Master that would be nice.
Are you open to long-distance relationships or only local matches? I hate NYC. Other than not wanting to put down roots, I do want an irl relationship. Long distance fills me with dread.
Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships? Monogamous, always.
Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have: Someone intellectual, stable, single and looking for a commitment, who doesn't want kids or have them but wants a little. Someone a little on the darker side or capable of understanding it. Someone really fun and patient. Someone self-aware, self-reliant and self-determining, and introspective. Someone safe to trust. Likes games and storytelling, for the little. BUT not a gamer. Someone passionate about what they do in life and what they put their effort into.
What are some things that have led you to identifying as a little? I have always been a bit late too fully grow up. I did have to take on many adult roles in childhood and it led to a stunted development, on the one hand being mature in some areas, in others far behind. It just continued that way as an adult, until the little-self was born slowly. It's an allowance of the inner child and it's wounds to surface in a controlled manner that has helped me. I am very childish in many respects. In others I still remain an adult and one who has important callings. I embody both. I find the dichotomy to be perfectly a part of my personality. I want to insure all my needs are being met, on various fronts.
Are you into physically intimate and/or nonsexual Caregiver/little regression? Both.
How long have you identified as a Little?: First at 23. Fell into a hiatus. Then again for past 7 years or so.
Are you a Little that likes to or expects to be punished? I think the power exchange, including rules and regulations, punishment and reward, is part and parcel of every D/s dynamic. So yes. But I hate being in trouble and people being mad at me so I assume it wouldn't be something I sought after.
What do you think you have to offer to a partner? I am capable of meeting many intellectual needs. I am well-rounded in my personality, meaning I have deliberately decided on who I want to be and I continue to become it. I bring that to the table, willing to change and grow and learn, as well as stand my ground and teach. I love being a little and that comes with me. I love caretaking in many different areas and I am all about helping others. I help and caretaker automatically as a default, it's hard to turn it off. I am very loyal and when I love someone or something I am all in. I am good around the house and I love animals. I want to make a beautiful home all the time and I want myself to express what I find beauty at all times.
Describe one of your favorite nonsexual fantasies or scenarios: I always picture sitting on the floor of a little's playroom/nursery maybe made up in an attic and looking out a big window while playing with toys and having a Daddy that comes up and checks on me, plays with me perhaps right there. I imagine it's full of spooky toys, macabre and twisted, subverting the sweet and innocent with scary and horror ... while always being cute and yes still innocent. Maybe we play with dead dolls, or a creepy board game, or read Halloween baby board books, or have a macabre tea party all done up in victorian attire, or we sew and craft spooky toys together. Typically this is a "slice of life" scene, just something that's normal. A random afternoon after a long association and trust has developed.
What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy? I love shopping for spooky baby stuff. I like doing occult rituals to call in Santa at Christmas. I love walks, through shopping malls, out in big grassy fields, through cemeteries, into town, in a forest or a ruin, etc. I like reading. I like petting animals in little space, it makes it better.
What are 3 movies or TV shows you enjoy?: Nightmare Before Christmas. Xena. Vampirina
What are 3 of your favorite foods? Pizza. Avocados. Sushi (All vegan of course.)
What are 3 of your favorite songs, bands, or musical artists? Lament For a Toy Factory by Dr Steel. Marilyn Manson. Rob Zombie
What is something you have recently learned? Talking to people lessons depression. Apparently Bouldering exits, it's like rock climbing but not as high? Idk, I just heard about it.
What is your current biggest life achievement? I have 7 books fully written on the first draft each.
During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react? Try to fix it, get mad and not talk or conversely talk about it a lot. Probably both. Feel shame at being angry.
What do you think of being partnered to a Caregiver who requires a large portion of your attention? Sounds lovely and exactly what I want.
What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself?: I am a writer, vegan, occultist, conservative republican, have experience both atheistic and theistic, and a Gemini Libra Libra. I've only dated women and now am looking to try a new thing. I want to overcome some trauma so this is a study in mastering phobias. I have anxiety and need help with managing my life a little. I adore spirituality and divination, and I use both in my writing. I aim to publish a book one day. I'd love help with sitting down and doing it. I don't like to focus on myself too much and focus on my pets and creative pursuits and research. I have a dalmatian.