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WV switch seeks switch

Posted: |May 25th, 2017|, 10:59 am
by Ecotaoist
  • Name:  Ted
  • Age:  40
  • Height:  6'1
  • Weight:  170 lbs
  • Location:  West Virginia
  • Occupation:  Ranger
  • Current Marital or Relationship Status:  single
  • physically intimate orientation:  pansexual
 
  • What are some things that have led you to identifying as both a little and a Caregiver?

    I am both dominant and submissive. I want to take care of someone, but want to be taken care of as well.
  • How often are you a little or submissive?

    40-50%
  • How often are you a Caregiver or dominant?
    50-60%
  • What type of partner are you looking for here?   

    Someone who is looking at the end game... That wants to find a nurturing supportive partner for the long haul.
    Someone I can share my deepest desires, my darkest fears, and my hopes and dreams with.
  • Are you open to long distance relationships or only local? 

    both
  • Describe your perfect match and some great qualities that they would have: 

    Perfect match can hold a conversation intellectual, or nerdy. They are mischievous, generally positive, nurturing, and enjoys quiet time as much as party time. They should enjoy being outdoors, and as comfortable in sweats as they are dressing up.
  • Are you into physically intimate or nonsexual Caregiver/little play? 

    physically intimate
  • Do you prefer polyamorous or monogamous relationships? 

    Monogamous, but open to polyamorous
  • How long have you been into the Caregiver/limc? 

    3-4 years
  • What are you looking for in a switch, little role? 
    Mischievousness, sweet loving cuddlebug.
  • What are you looking for in a switch, dominant role?

    Nurturing, the ability and willingness to take the initiative. I'm mostly a good boy, but sensitive, need a switch who understands my quietness and my acquiescent nature.
  • What do you think you have to offer another switch-type? 

    The ability to be both nurturing and needing of nurturing. The understanding that most don't have of this personality type, both fiercely independent, and dependant at the same time.
  • What are some common punishments you use to discipline, correct, or guide? 
    Spanking, lecturing, loss of priveleges, timeouts
  • What are rewards or reward methods you enjoy providing or receiving?  

    Bubble baths, treats (physically intimate and nonsexual), expansion of priveleges
  • Describe one of your favorite nonsexual fantasies or scenarios: 

    Building a pillowfort, cuddling under the blankets and watching a movie or reading or being read to.
  • What are some general nicknames you like to call your little? 

    Babe, sweetheart, baby girl, punk(in), a shortened form of her given name.
  • What is one thing that all (Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver) Doms should know? 

    Its about creating a safe space of trust that both partners can explore in without fear of rejection.
  • What do you think makes a Caregiver Dom different than a regular or general Dominant? 

    A regular Dom is about the rules, a caregiver is about the relationship.
  • What are 5 nonsexual things you enjoy? 

    Photography
    Reading
    Music
    Movies
    Cooking
  • What are 3 movies you enjoy?  

    Harry Potter
    Star Wars
    Princess Mononoke
  • What are 3 of your favorite foods?  

    Sushi
    Mexican
    Anything grilled
  • What are 3 of your favorite songs, bands, or musical artists?  

    Antje Duvekot
    Joe Purdy
    Slaid Cleaves
  • What is something you have recently learned?

    How to properly fell a tree...
    Or,
    Everyone in life is going through something, and they deserve my empathy, my love, and my help.
  • What is your current biggest life achievement?

    I don't regret anything, for it has lead me here.
  • What is your current biggest life achievement?
    Quitting a high paying job to follow my passion... The moral/achievement is the courage to follow my dreams.
  • During an argument or disagreement with a partner, how do you typically react?  
     
    I tend to be quiet while I think about and mull over the issue. Then I want to discuss it before making any type of decision.
  • What are some other things you would like to tell a potentially interested partner about yourself? 
    I am quiet, sensitive, I am easy going, I tend towards the optimistic. I am also stubborn, empathic, and a realist.