- 5 years ago
#52309
what's that one BeDeeSeM community website?
But I think the good doctor has some very good thoughts.
But I disagree with his impression of a generaltional difference in littles.
Although I would agree there are more dysfunctional littles in the younger generation than his own.
I wouldn't say that it's a problem with the generation as much as a problem with inexperience and the reinforcement of bad emotional or psychological habits formed by places like tumblr. Although tumblr has pretty much put a stop to it. which I think is for the best.
I think if we just as a community try and push people to proper resources, that these problems would go away quickly.
As for little space being an emotional pressure valve that's absolutely correct imo. And I also see it as healthy up to a point as well.
All coping mechanisms can be healthy if not abused.
But I think the good doctor has some very good thoughts.
But I disagree with his impression of a generaltional difference in littles.
Although I would agree there are more dysfunctional littles in the younger generation than his own.
I wouldn't say that it's a problem with the generation as much as a problem with inexperience and the reinforcement of bad emotional or psychological habits formed by places like tumblr. Although tumblr has pretty much put a stop to it. which I think is for the best.
I think if we just as a community try and push people to proper resources, that these problems would go away quickly.
As for little space being an emotional pressure valve that's absolutely correct imo. And I also see it as healthy up to a point as well.
All coping mechanisms can be healthy if not abused.
Daddyest- not a claim but a goal.