- 5 years ago
#50847
Hey all,
Just a curious question here. This topic question is assuming that every care-giver wants to protect their little, make them feel special and do everything to keep and make them happy.
Lastly, before i get into this topic, this is also assuming that the relationship is physically intimate/intimate also.
In regards to things such as falling ill, or having an appearance of falling weak due to something, should you talk to your little about it? The "obvious" answer may be yes, as they are your partner as well as your care-giver or little, but if you are the very thing that makes your little feel safe, and you have something temporary or otherwise that could make you appear less indestructable, should you still tell your little? even if that means that it could affect how safe they feel, and therefore their ability to get into littlespace?
I have been ill for years (I know this sounds weird) and it has been very difficult for me in all aspects, but aside from my personal struggles and experiences/personal debates, i am generally interested in the views of both sides here.
This is a very difficult topic indeed. (In my opinion) i wish for my opinion, even if someone has a complete oppisite position, to be respected, and for counter-arguments not to be hostile or include anything relating to "obviously". I feel a post coming in that a care-giver shouldnt be so idolized because they are human, but if a person feels that strongly about you, why would you want to lessen such a bond?
Just a curious question here. This topic question is assuming that every care-giver wants to protect their little, make them feel special and do everything to keep and make them happy.
Lastly, before i get into this topic, this is also assuming that the relationship is physically intimate/intimate also.
In regards to things such as falling ill, or having an appearance of falling weak due to something, should you talk to your little about it? The "obvious" answer may be yes, as they are your partner as well as your care-giver or little, but if you are the very thing that makes your little feel safe, and you have something temporary or otherwise that could make you appear less indestructable, should you still tell your little? even if that means that it could affect how safe they feel, and therefore their ability to get into littlespace?
I have been ill for years (I know this sounds weird) and it has been very difficult for me in all aspects, but aside from my personal struggles and experiences/personal debates, i am generally interested in the views of both sides here.
This is a very difficult topic indeed. (In my opinion) i wish for my opinion, even if someone has a complete oppisite position, to be respected, and for counter-arguments not to be hostile or include anything relating to "obviously". I feel a post coming in that a care-giver shouldnt be so idolized because they are human, but if a person feels that strongly about you, why would you want to lessen such a bond?