I don't think you should feel bad if you didn't mean what the other replyer thought you meant. I think the other person is just upset that they maybe had fallen for the woe is me thing that some people just do throughout life. Users are in every community and it isn't just strictly limited to "fake daddies" or something like people sort of make it seem sometimes so I think the person is just hurt and jumped to conclusions. Hey nobody's perfect so let's just ignore some or most of their fussy attitude!
I do think they gave you some solutions that might help you though? I'm not saying you should starve yourself or restrict your food intake so much but I do think they pointed out that maybe you could look into your current life habits and make a few short term changes to save up some spending money. I don't want to pretend to know your life and make stab in the dark suggestions at that but I think maybe if you sat down and really thought about it you could find something you could temporarily cut out or reduce so you could buy some little presents for yourself. Everybody deserves treats sometimes
And maybe that's what you're for sure missing? Just treating yourself sometimes every now and again. Everybody feels overwhelmed sometimes. Everybody feels overworked sometimes. Everybody feels stressed sometimes. We all have to manage how we can figure out how to manage but alot of the times it comes down to needing special time for yourself and to treat yourself to good stuff. It's why people do splurges, cheat days when on diets, and vacations! Just don't forget about yourself! You need your own love and care too! Hard times always pass so once this rough patch is through then you'll just feel stronger that you got past it