I have Different rules for different times, like I have rules for normal MDLG life but different rules for the Adult side of our relationship if that makes sense.
My MDLG normal everyday rules are :
1.Have to eat 3 meals a day
2. No Soda.
3. Mommy decides what snacks I'm allowed.
4. Mommy has final say on all outfit choices
5. Not allowed to talk to strangers
6.Not allowed to turn on the stove etc unless Mommy is around
7. Listen and respect Mommy, she knows whats best.
8. Dont be a brat
9.I'm not allowed to 'play' by myself (more the Adult side but still'
10.I have to tell Mommy if i need some little time or quiet time
I have a sticker chart also for if ive had a good day and i get rewards after 10 stickers