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#36271
I have a couple rules, and some understanding on expectations.
I have a curfew and must ask permission for any adult activities like going out somewhere at night or drinking. I have to check in at least once if we're apart, and I have to write in my journal every day.
I have a couple sensual rules for adult time with Daddy.
I also have a couple very low level rules. Sometimes I crave or need "bad attention" but I feel so guilty when I'm a brat, and also it's very hard for me to ask for discipline time... So I have the low level rules that I can break or accidentally break, and Daddy isn't very upset, but knows I need the attention. Without regular correction I get nervous and insecure and act out, neither of us want that, so this added option has helped a lot.
#36455
The ones with my previous daddy were all pretty simple.

In bed by 10:30 on days I have to work. This included getting showered, hair and teeth brushed.

Always calling him daddy.

No lying.

Always telling him what was wrong.

And of course there was unspoken ones between us but these were the main ones
By littleonexox
#36564
So I have the low level rules that I can break or accidentally break, and Daddy isn't very upset, but knows I need the attention. Without regular correction I get nervous and insecure and act out, neither of us want that, so this added option has helped a lot.
That actually makes a lot of sense and is a good idea.
By PrincessToriii
#37025
Me and my Daddy arenew to our relationship, so these are just his basic rules. Daddy says we will add rules as they are needed. I like his rules because they keep me in line, but don't make me feel miserable and trapped, like how I felt with my last daddy.


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#37157
My daddy has some rules for me but not many.

I have to try to be nice to daddy (i'm more of a brat)
-Take my vitamins
-Not hit daddy (it's hard to follow 'cause I swat at him for attention)
-No talking to other boys without his approval
-No hurting myself
-No talking bad about myself
-Always give daddy hugs.

:)
#37163
My daddy doesn't really know that he's an AB caregiver. But he calls himself my daddy and treats my like a child, and I act like a child. It's nice ☺️ Anyway, his rules are specific. I can have one cup of chocolate milk a day and I'm not allowed to make it myself because I'll put in too much chocolate syrup (so he says). I'm not allowed to open bags like chips or salad because I'll spill it, I'm not allowed to take my own socks off. He likes doing it for me ☺️. And he just makes me eat regularly. 3 meals a day.
#37804
The rules you set for yourself should depend on how much structure you need. I for one need a lot of structure because I'm constantly stressed about my ever changing life, so my Daddy has strict rules, but it's consensual. We always discuss rules before they're implemented and they are to help me.

We're experimenting right now so our rules are kinda scattered. There are rules, as well as guidelines.

My rules are:

-Operate by love in all that we do.
-Every choice and decision has each other’s best interest in mind. Never operate out of anger but in love.
-Every choice that needs any sort of research be made with logical facts and conclusions
For example new aspects of the lifestyle we wish to incorporate into our lives

-You are mine and mine alone heart, body, mind and soul.
This means no cheating
-No drugs, leaf is permissible with permission
-Always speak in English with Daddy, or when Daddy is present.
If conversing with someone else, translate into English
-Always tell Daddy if you’re feeling self-destructive
-No touching yourself in a physically intimate manner without permission
-No whipcreaming without permission
-Don’t lie to Daddy
Or tell half truths

-Bedtime 11pm on school or work nights
2am on weeknights or non work nights
Unless spending time with Daddy or given permission
-No sugar after 9pm (unless with Daddy’s permission)
-At least 2 meals + 32oz water a day
-Fast food limited to 3 times a week (pizza is included)
Max 2 snacks a day
Fruit or other healthy stuff doesn't count.
-No swearing
Extra punishment if you flip Daddy off or tell Daddy “f*** you/off” (in a serious manner)
-Pick out 2-3 weather appropriate outfits each night, then send to Daddy for decision
My decision is final unless weather changes suddenly
-Shower at least every other day
-Brush Teeth twice a day
-Always wear an approved choker.
If you’re feeling sick you may take off with my permission
If not on neck wear as bracelet
-Always take meds as prescribed.
Also remind Daddy to take his.
-Follow any directions/instructions Daddy gives you even if it contradicts with rules or guidelines
You may discuss with me but you are not allowed to outright defy or fight me.
-Always communicate respectfully with Daddy.

My guidelines are:

-Behave in public
-Compliment your reflection
-1 nap a day
Will be enforced on kitten’s days off
-Call me Daddy or Sir
Unless around family or people who don't understand
-Sleep in Diapers and onesies
-Follow the rules, if you don’t agree with a rule, tell daddy he will compromise always.
-Respect yourself and your wants, never be embarrassed about something you want, just ask.
-No passive aggressive replies such as
"K","Whatever"
-Any sort of Diary task shall be published on tumblr
Or in our shared folder on google docs
-Check in with Daddy once in awhile

How we found these were by learning from other Daddies and littles, and tailoring the rules to our needs.

Hope this helps!
#43851
My Master has some pretty basic rules for me :
Give him all the attentions and cuddles
If I feel sadness tell him why so he can help me feel better
Do not talk to boys that I don't know
Take care of my pets everyday
Take care of myself (no restricting food or self harm)
Do not bother him when he's playing video games (I'm no good at following this rule 😜😜)
If I needs help ask him

That's pretty much all the main ones :3
#45199
my rules are simple:
1.) no disrespecting daddy, punishment will follow if i do
2.) be kind to myself, compliment myself and no saying bad things
3.) no swearing, being rude or else i get punished
4.) use my inside voice, unless i'm outside
5.) bedtime is 9pm on weekdays and 12pm on weekends
6.) always tell daddy the truth
7.) bathtime daily, and brush my teethies 2-3 times a day
8.) always tell daddy when something is wrong
9.) when we go out in public i must stay where he can see me at all times
10.) finish my meals, or no dessert and always ask before getting seconds
11.) ask daddy for play time, always take care of daddy first
12.) say please and thank you, every time

I only ever get punished if i break one of the big rules, and they usually aren't that bad... but i always try to follow daddys rules because that makes daddy happy!
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