- 7 years ago
#22707
I have a long distance Daddy as well...he always makes time for me even when he's busy. I'm his priority, so, if your Daddy isn't meeting your needs or makes you a top priority you might need to think about if you're communicating your needs effectively.
My long distance relationship is complicated, I can only email and snail mail him. I can see him for 3 hours 4 times a month but I can't visit him that often.
Here's a list of things we do to keep ourselves connected:
1) I always know when to expect a call from because we plan it.
2) We have one phone every week where we sip coffee and wake up together over the phone.
3) he sends me poems, doodles, and artwork.
4) he stinks up t-shirts and sends them to me so I can feel close to him when I go to sleep
5) he tells me how important I am and how much he loves me in every letter or email.
6) I send him a postcard daily when I am on vacation.
7) We don't make concrete plans for our future, it can be extremely anxious for us to do so. Instead, we talk about how we would have fun while entertaining the idea of future plans.
I hope this helps. If you need anyone to talk to, my inbox is always open!
Have a happy day!!
Bonsai