- 6 years ago
#40443
I'm in a bit of a confusing and awkward situation. I live with my parents, as their carer (both are elderly). As I'm both constantly needed at home (except for the very rare occasions I can take a holiday) and somewhat disabled, I'm unable to get a job, which means no moving out, even if I wasn't needed. on top of that, my parents are not the most understanding people. While I'm very open-minded and basically take an 'as long as you don't hurt someone or something and you're not breaking any laws, you do you' approach to life, my parents are both at least somewhat conservative. They have a lot of trouble understanding alternative sexualities/ lifestyles.
Needless to say, being a pansexual little...not the easiest thing in the world to be open about. As a result, I'm kind of stuck with the fact that I'm going to have to have a LDR with my very first daddy/mommy. Not the best situation, and certainly not my favorite considering I am extremely affectionate and love hugs, but they would never understand the whole CG/l thing, let alone if I were to have a mommy.
So my question is this: How do CGs feel about a little in my kind of situation? Would it put you off? Would you accept it? Try to embrace it/ overcome it? I've never had a chance to make that kind of a bond before, and I guess I'd kind of like to know if it's even possible for someone like me or if it's something I shouldn't even really bother with.
Needless to say, being a pansexual little...not the easiest thing in the world to be open about. As a result, I'm kind of stuck with the fact that I'm going to have to have a LDR with my very first daddy/mommy. Not the best situation, and certainly not my favorite considering I am extremely affectionate and love hugs, but they would never understand the whole CG/l thing, let alone if I were to have a mommy.
So my question is this: How do CGs feel about a little in my kind of situation? Would it put you off? Would you accept it? Try to embrace it/ overcome it? I've never had a chance to make that kind of a bond before, and I guess I'd kind of like to know if it's even possible for someone like me or if it's something I shouldn't even really bother with.