- 6 years ago
#36247
This happened to me. And I agree with the person that said in Long distance situations it's easier for people to just walk away.
We had been together about a year, had visited in person 3 times. He wanted me to come live with him, but I want ready. I wasn't ready to leave home (I was 20). I want ready to be a babygirl 24/7, and I was very happy with the current situation. It tore me up, but I explained why I want ready, he seemed to understand.
3 days later he broke things off over instant messenger, wouldn't answer my calls. I was devastated, I was heart broken. I had changed so much and become someone different for him. I think I was in bed for a few days after, and a mess a while after that. It took a long time to get over it.
Then I found him online on a personals site about a year later. He was a little, seeking a Daddy. At first I was shocked, then it kinda made since. In hindsite I feel like he had tried too hard with me, that it wasn't really him and that why he was rushing into things. So it worked out for the best, just was very harsh at the time.
It's ok to dought yourself, or to discover you aren't who you thought you were, or to simply change your mind... But, if you cared for someone, even a little, you should talk and be honest. Submissives and little become very volnerable in serious relationships and power exchange, you can leave like any other relationship, but be sensitive about it.
On one level I understand and have moved on, on another I'm still harmed and nervous because of it. There's one song that still sets me off and it was 7 years and 3 Daddy's ago...
Be careful, be sensitive, be honest.