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By Lacie828
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Do you have rules for your little that only apply in a scene or when they're in little space? Or do you have rules that apply all the time? Like even if they're not on little space they have rules they have to follow (ex: no bad words)? Or both? Also does it depend on if they're a 27/7 submissive or if they're only submissive in a scene? And does it depend on what kind of rules they are? Thank you :)
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By BigPapa
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When I give a little rules some of them apply whenever we are together, some of them when we are alone, and some all the time.

For example, no self-harm would apply always. But always address me as "Daddy" or "Sir" might only apply when we're alone. Wear outfits I approve might only apply when we're together.

Each relationship is different and a good GC should tailor rules to the needs of the relationship. If they are good rules, they should serve to bring you closer together, even if they are hard to follow.
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