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Good aftercare, how ?

Aftercare for a little can be different than providing aftercare for a typical BeDeeSeM sub. Sure, both parties are submissives but a ddlg / AB / mdlb / little can have very different needs or require a particular type of care after a playtime scene.

Here are some ideas:

• A soothing bath. Bathing your little could be a good time to help them relax.

• Cuddling. Holding your sub or little can be a good come down.

• Lotion bruises and areas that received impact. Soothing lotions with camomile may be extra helpful.

• Petting and praise. Caressing your little and praising them with soft words, "You were such a good boy / girl," "I'm proud of you, little."

• Setting down to a favorite movie. Choose a movie your little particularly enjoys.

• Quiet time. Get your little comfortable on the couch or bed with their favorite blanket, stuffed toy or doll, and a drink (don't forget the sippy cup or bottle) or snack.

• A special treat. Give your sub some special aftercare candy, chocolate, warm milk, or snack that you've agree on would be used as a comforting reward.

• Gentle kisses. Show that you're giving their bruises and places of impact special care and attention.

• Reassure your sub and show them that they're safe with you.

• Brush their hair. Many littles with long hair particularly enjoy this relaxation time. You could buy a special cartoon character brush just for this activity.

• Build a forte. Create a quick make-shift forte to enjoy together in for awhile to feel like you've "got away from it all" that evening.

• Storytime. Read a short, sweet story to your little while they relax.

Might I suggest asking your Little what they would like as aftercare? Y'all can come up with ideas together.