- 9 years ago
#73
I was talking with an adult acquaintance online a couple of weeks ago and somewhere along the lines primary kinks came up. I said that I was heavily into the Ddlg scene and had an active Daddy. He said that it sounded nice and inquired a little further, asking what age I had a tendency to go into while in littlespace.
My answer is around 4 to 7. I'm physically 28 years old but in littlespace I'm not so much. Sometimes I act younger than that, even, muttering only half-words and cute phrases instead of big grown up words and talk.
He then came back with, "Oh. Don't you feel that playing like that promotes...you know..."
In the end, he was suggesting that it promoted something horrible and illegal. I came back with, "No, not at all. I'm still an adult physically and mentally. My actions or language don't make me something I'm not. I'd never encourage something so terrible."
He disagreed and left it at that. He said that I was sexualizing something that wasn't to be sexualized.
...what?
...How?
What would have been a better come back/explanation to Ddlg?
My answer is around 4 to 7. I'm physically 28 years old but in littlespace I'm not so much. Sometimes I act younger than that, even, muttering only half-words and cute phrases instead of big grown up words and talk.
He then came back with, "Oh. Don't you feel that playing like that promotes...you know..."
In the end, he was suggesting that it promoted something horrible and illegal. I came back with, "No, not at all. I'm still an adult physically and mentally. My actions or language don't make me something I'm not. I'd never encourage something so terrible."
He disagreed and left it at that. He said that I was sexualizing something that wasn't to be sexualized.
...what?
...How?
What would have been a better come back/explanation to Ddlg?