My Daddy is married and cheating on his wife with me. How to not feel like “the other woman”?
Posted: |January 30th, 2020|, 11:36 pm
I’m in a long-distance relationship with my Daddy. We’ve been together for several months, and I’m completely head over heels in love with him and it’s extremely obvious he loves me. There’s not only a huge geographical distance between us, but he’s also several years older than me....and he’s married.
We started out as “Teacher and Student” and it developed from there. He’s absolutely everything I ever wanted in a Daddy and more.
He’s been upfront about his relationship with his wife since day one. They’re Christian and he stays with her because religious beliefs and he doesn’t want to devastate their family by leaving. They’ve slept in different rooms for years. She’s not into any form of kink/CGL/Submission at all, and that’s been a major point of contempt within their marriage. I’m not the first little he’s had.
I knew what I was getting into before I ever agreed to be his little. But I never realized I’d feel “second place”. It hurts soooo much. Being his little means I have to give up so much of my future. I’ve always wanted to have children of my own...but that can never happen with him. I would love to come home every day and be able to run into my Daddy’s arms and cuddle...but I can’t. I can’t even call him except on rare occasions.
He’s my everything. I don’t want to end it before it’s hardly begun, but I’m so lost. I don’t feel like I can talk to him about this because I really don’t want to hurt him like that.
Can anyone help me? I would love some insight, some advice. I’m a horrible overthinker, so if you see that here, please tell me. This is killing me.
We started out as “Teacher and Student” and it developed from there. He’s absolutely everything I ever wanted in a Daddy and more.
He’s been upfront about his relationship with his wife since day one. They’re Christian and he stays with her because religious beliefs and he doesn’t want to devastate their family by leaving. They’ve slept in different rooms for years. She’s not into any form of kink/CGL/Submission at all, and that’s been a major point of contempt within their marriage. I’m not the first little he’s had.
I knew what I was getting into before I ever agreed to be his little. But I never realized I’d feel “second place”. It hurts soooo much. Being his little means I have to give up so much of my future. I’ve always wanted to have children of my own...but that can never happen with him. I would love to come home every day and be able to run into my Daddy’s arms and cuddle...but I can’t. I can’t even call him except on rare occasions.
He’s my everything. I don’t want to end it before it’s hardly begun, but I’m so lost. I don’t feel like I can talk to him about this because I really don’t want to hurt him like that.
Can anyone help me? I would love some insight, some advice. I’m a horrible overthinker, so if you see that here, please tell me. This is killing me.