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#52120
Question for nonsexual regressors: why separate sexual needs from regression?

Hello, LittlespaceOnline! We come to you wishing for feedback from your beautiful members!

We apologize beforehand if our language seems too confrontational. We sincerely wish to know how others think and feel about this very topic!

We wish to know what reasons you have for separating sexual activities from littlespace. We would like to know, especially for those who still have sexual needs and desires.

Our own perspective

We ourselves do not fit in the category of nonsexual regressors. We have long ago established that we are perfectly comfortable and happy with having our sexual needs and desires met while in littlespace, as most (if not all) of our other needs can be met whole in regressed state.

Part of being a Little and being cared for is to have all needs reasonably met. The younger the mental age and physical capacity mimicked, the less actions one can make for oneself and the more the reliance on caregiving figures.

We have accepted that our sexual needs are an inherent part of our humanity, and thus, we do not feel comfortable with ignoring them altogether. Our body would sincerely dislike it if we neglected this aspect of our life.

And so, our need for sexual pleasure and release has been packaged up with our other needs, and thankfully, our Mommy shares our perspective and is willing, able, and happy to tend to us even in this way.

So, we wonder...
  • Have others considered this topic as we do?
  • Do you or do you not feel that sexual needs can and should be part of regression?
Feel free to pitch in with any comment, opinion and experience! Any words are appreciated.

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#52135
Personally, being sexual while regressed makes me extremely uncomfortable. Not just for the fact that while I am still in my first year of HRT (female to male) and I have a higher than normal sex drive, but my fiancee has a bad past regarding sexual abuse as a child.

As far as my, er, needs are concerned, I have to wait until I've satisfied myself before I can even consider regressing.

I mean, if being a sexual regressor is your thing, go for it! I just find the idea very uncomfortable.

The way I see love and sex, so long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, you do you. 😊

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#52148
Quite simple:

When I regress, I literally mentally and emotionally regress to the state of a child. A child who does not have "sexual needs" or desires, who does not even think about those things while regressed. I'm not an adult pretending to be little for kicks, it's a genuinely innocent and adolescent mental state. I would not be able to consent to sex in that mental state. I am not consciously, purposefully separating anything: someone with a child's mind is just simply not sexual (unless something very bad has happened to them.)

When I'm in an adult state and not regressed, I am very sexual and I take care of those needs just fine. I might even participate in ageplay as a adult interest (like wearing diapers or getting a good spanking) when big, but the adult interest world is completely 100% separate from my regression, the only overlap being cosmetic. Regression is my psychological therapy rather than my kink. Make sense?

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princeofpacis wrote:
6 months ago
Quite simple:

When I regress, I literally mentally and emotionally regress to the state of a child. A child who does not have "sexual needs" or desires, who does not even think about those things while regressed. I'm not an adult pretending to be little for kicks, it's a genuinely innocent and adolescent mental state. I would not be able to consent to adult relations in that mental state. I am not consciously, purposefully separating anything: someone with a child's mind is just simply not sexual (unless something very bad has happened to them.)

When I'm in an adult state and not regressed, I am very sexual and I take care of those needs just fine. I might even participate in ageplay as a adult interest (like wearing diapers or getting a good spanking) when big, but the adult interest world is completely 100% separate from my regression, the only overlap being cosmetic. Regression is my psychological therapy rather than my kink. Make sense?

I feel like @princeofpacis put this perfectly! For me, personally, age regression is an uncontrollable and mental health-related aspect of my life, which is essentially intermittent periods of my mind becoming the mind of myself as a child. Sex doesn't even interact with that headspace for me, because it is purely the headspace of a young child. The "point" if you will of my age regression is partly to get away from all the needs, responsibilities, and pressures of adult life. Worrying about sex and sexuality are included in that category for me. I do understand why some littles would include sex and sexuality in their littlespace, but it just really isn't for me. However, like @princeofpacis, I consider ageplay to be a completely separate thing. While age regression is not something that interacts with sex at all, ageplay is a kink, and its entire basis is a sexual one. I hope this made sense!

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princeofpacis wrote:
6 months ago
Quite simple:

When I regress, I literally mentally and emotionally regress to the state of a child. A child who does not have "sexual needs" or desires, who does not even think about those things while regressed. I'm not an adult pretending to be little for kicks, it's a genuinely innocent and adolescent mental state. I would not be able to consent to adult relations in that mental state. I am not consciously, purposefully separating anything: someone with a child's mind is just simply not sexual (unless something very bad has happened to them.)

When I'm in an adult state and not regressed, I am very sexual and I take care of those needs just fine. I might even participate in ageplay as a adult interest (like wearing diapers or getting a good spanking) when big, but the adult interest world is completely 100% separate from my regression, the only overlap being cosmetic. Regression is my psychological therapy rather than my kink. Make sense?
This is exactly it. Littlespace is an escape into an easier mindset; no big rules or jobs to worry about. In a sense, regression is breaktime from adult world problems.

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