Caregivers, Mommies, Daddies, adult babies, middles, babyfur, diaperfur, and all other Bigs and littles discuss relationship dynamics, have open group conversation, share experienced advice, and exchange ideas to help one another grow in knowledge. (Age 18 or older only permitted)
Note: Personal ads are NOT permitted in this section.
Forum rules: This section of the site is for open, group conversation and public discussion topics within the community.

Additional Helpful Tips:
  • General advice and tips are all over the site. Please ask specific questions or for specific input.
  • We suggest only asking one question per post for the best answer opportunities.
  • See our forum FAQ for questions we no longer accept due to the frequency of them being asked.
  • Go to DateCGL to find a special someone, partner, to date, or any other type of special connection.
  • User avatar
  • User avatar
#51651
Hi everyone! I'm sorry to bother you all, but I have a question..

I only recently discovered my little side, or rather that such a thing exists rather than me just being "weird" compared to other people. I've often been made fun of for my childish nature.. so I am so glad to have found a community as welcoming as this.

As for my question.. does anyone have any tips for connecting with my little side more effectively? I know she is there, but I don't know how to learn more about her or get more in touch with her. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I want to learn more about who I am. ;w; Thanks so much. :heart:

Link:
Hide post links
Show post links
#51749
Hi there! You're not a bother. Asking questions is how we learn and that's what this site is for as well as making friends and such. I'm fairly new to CG/L as well, being a Little Boy. I've known about the lifestyle for a long time, but never had a chance until now to explore.

Everybody is different and although something may work for one person may not work for another. It depends on the individual. I find I slip into Littlespace extremely easy when I'm stressed or anxious. I'm still learning myself how to find my little self at other times. A few people have said to me about being comfortable, having your favourite teddy/stuffie close by, pacifier (if you use one), your favourite blanket, watching a childrens tv show that you like.

For some people being Little may only last a handful of minutes or hours, others spend much more time as a Little. Again, it depends on the person. Like I said, I'm still very inexperienced and have a lot to learn, but if you ever want to chat about anything Little related or not feel free to do so.

Link:
Hide post links
Show post links
#51755
Haiiii friend :hi:
It’s oki we all have that weird thing where we discover another part of ourselves! I’ve been a little for a few years and I find doing a little coloring book thingy while in my Reptar onsie with Gow (my stuffie) puts me right into little space! Cute or nostalgic music is great and so are your favorite little shows! Take your time there’s no rush, it’s fun to learn about yourself :3
Some littles have a “little age” some just don’t. I range a lot so I don’t think I have a specific little age but you may be different! Just think of things that will make you feel cute and small and silly and you’ll find your own little space in no time(: :splode:

Link:
Hide post links
Show post links

I very rarely answer posts on the site like this b[…]

How to order diapers discreetly?

Something I've pointed out to several little frien[…]

Here are two more examples. Feel Free to use eith[…]

Which Harry Potter house are you in?

I'm in Ravenclaw, which I guess makes sense. I hav[…]