- 6 months ago #51529
So, I'm a bit new at being a Caregiver/Daddy. I was in a relationship with a little for around 9 months, prior to this and during I learned a lot from two friends who have been in a DDLG relationship for years now. Now I've been in a new relationship where me and a the little started out as just friends, then she asked me to be her caregiver to simply take care of her little side but remain a friend, I was quite delighted, around a month later she wanted to be together and have me as her Daddy, for the first couple of weeks now she has followed her rules ( bedtime, eating, hygiene, etc... ) but for the past couple of days she just won't follow any rules, when I bring up punishment ( having her write lines, corner timeout, etc... ) she simply tells me no she won't do it, She' s been abused, threatened by exes before along with many mental health issues such as Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Bipolar Disorder. I have no idea what could be going on inside her head as she won't tell me anything, just tells me it's not important and that she's fine, but I can tell she's not from her tone, moods, sleep patterns. Only thing I do know is she's holding something inside her, many of her family members passed away when she was around 13 so she looks at herself as the angel of death. And has a very low opinion of herself, and thinks she deserves nothing.And that's something I got from her that she has refused to tell family/doctors as she has weekly visits to a therapist and psychiatrist. Would really love some advice with her.
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