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Is it okay that my daddy doesn't talk to me for the rest of the night when I don't listen to him..? If it's not, then how should I talk to him about it.? Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

How would you feel if your Daddy didn’t listen to you? How important is it for your Daddy to feel listened to?

It really depends on the type of relationship that you’re into, but generally speaking, it is perfectly acceptable to have a reaction to

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It really depends on the type of relationship that you’re into, but generally speaking, it is perfectly normal to have an adverse reaction to a negative, potentially threatening action.

Just because Caregivers are in a more position of power does not mean that they are not human and do not have feelings. Make sure to care for your partner’s feelings. Caregivers need to feel cared for as well, you know?

Anyway, we would advise you that you reached out to him asking for a sincere apology, pointing out the things that you feel you were in the wrong, and ask him how he feels and potentially how he would like to have things mended.

Unfortunately to you, you were the first aggressor, and so it is courteous to allow your Caregiver to decide what to do within reason (it wouldn’t make sense to ask for a severe and degrading punishment, either; he should care about your feelings as well).

Also, attempt to set guides so that this sort of event does not occur again. Your Daddy doesn’t like not being listened to? Then try your best to listen to him. If you can’t listen to him or have an opinion, you should be able to express that as well. Have wide open lines of communication for a happy relationship.

In the meantime, write a thoughtful message to him and ponder how you can improve!

Most importantly how does it make you feel when he does? Its, a perfectly fine as a punishment as long as you both agree it is helpful and is doing more good than harm.