- 5 years ago
#50736
Here's a little background:
My daddy and I kept our relationship hidden for the first few months because my family didn't initially approve of us even talking and tried to prevent communication between us. Well my daddy and I went to a hotel a month ago for some alone time and we weren't careful enough and my parents found out. So our relationship was out there and my family lost their trust in me and really didn't like Daddy. My parents threatened him and his family multiple times. I tried to defend him every time but they never listened. Recently my parents did a background check on my daddy and gave underlining threats and he said that that was the last straw. That he loves me but he can't do this right now, he needs to think about his family since he will be a father very soon because he got his ex pregnant. He told me to focus on myself and my life and after all this mess calms down we can reconnect. He asked me to wait for him and he'll wait for me because there's no one else he wants.
So we're on a break. I think that this is probably best for us, to fix ourselves and our situations before we can truly start a stable life together. I trust that he'll stay faithful and focus on his life and situation, but I just really miss my daddy. I've never been on a break before. I don't know how to cope or get past this empty feeling of not being able to talk to him.
Thank you for listening and for any advice you can give, I appreciate it.
My daddy and I kept our relationship hidden for the first few months because my family didn't initially approve of us even talking and tried to prevent communication between us. Well my daddy and I went to a hotel a month ago for some alone time and we weren't careful enough and my parents found out. So our relationship was out there and my family lost their trust in me and really didn't like Daddy. My parents threatened him and his family multiple times. I tried to defend him every time but they never listened. Recently my parents did a background check on my daddy and gave underlining threats and he said that that was the last straw. That he loves me but he can't do this right now, he needs to think about his family since he will be a father very soon because he got his ex pregnant. He told me to focus on myself and my life and after all this mess calms down we can reconnect. He asked me to wait for him and he'll wait for me because there's no one else he wants.
So we're on a break. I think that this is probably best for us, to fix ourselves and our situations before we can truly start a stable life together. I trust that he'll stay faithful and focus on his life and situation, but I just really miss my daddy. I've never been on a break before. I don't know how to cope or get past this empty feeling of not being able to talk to him.
Thank you for listening and for any advice you can give, I appreciate it.