- 5 years ago
#50099
I need some help. I'm at a loss....
So, a few months ago, my boyfriend was going through my phone while I was sleeping and he found some pictures and some sites I had been on that indicated my AB/Little side. (Side note: I don't care about him going through my phone, I really don't have anything to hide), but anyways, he asked me about it a few days later and he seemed very upset with me. He expressed that he didn't understand it and I explained to him what it was about and why I did it and that I have been trying to keep that side of me hidden because I was afraid of what he would think. He asked if I still take part in it and I explained that I was trying to get away from it. He said he wouldn't judge me for it and he kept saying that's who I used to be, but the truth is...that's who I still am and I don't know how to explain that to him. We have been together for about a year now and he keeps telling me he'll be with me for as long as I want him and I love him and I want to keep him around for as long as I can, but I want him to understand that my little side is still part of who I am and I just don't want him to get upset because I am still part of this community. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help? Any advice is much appreciated. Thank you!
So, a few months ago, my boyfriend was going through my phone while I was sleeping and he found some pictures and some sites I had been on that indicated my AB/Little side. (Side note: I don't care about him going through my phone, I really don't have anything to hide), but anyways, he asked me about it a few days later and he seemed very upset with me. He expressed that he didn't understand it and I explained to him what it was about and why I did it and that I have been trying to keep that side of me hidden because I was afraid of what he would think. He asked if I still take part in it and I explained that I was trying to get away from it. He said he wouldn't judge me for it and he kept saying that's who I used to be, but the truth is...that's who I still am and I don't know how to explain that to him. We have been together for about a year now and he keeps telling me he'll be with me for as long as I want him and I love him and I want to keep him around for as long as I can, but I want him to understand that my little side is still part of who I am and I just don't want him to get upset because I am still part of this community. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help? Any advice is much appreciated. Thank you!
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