[LittleLady317]

How is the best way to approach someone about my needs ?? Also, what if your daddy isn't getting the hang of things ?

[Marshmalohgrrl]

The biggest and most important rule in any relationship is communication. You have to be able to talk to your partner. I have a hard time asking my Daddy for things and I tend to just wait for him to notice I want or need something and that's not good. So I got brave and asked him if I could have some passes that I could give him that tell him what I want without me having to actually ask him. That seems to work pretty well for us. He's also working with me to make it so I can ask for things. He sometimes will ask me if I can tell him what I want after I give him my ticket. And sometimes I'm able to ask him. I just have to have permission for some reason to ask for things. Anyway-- tell your Daddy you want to talk and see if you can get out of littlespace long enough to talk to him in bigspace and see what you can work out. You'll be much happier if you talk things out or you can look for another CG who will work with you.