- 5 years ago
#50010
I hang out with a lot of guys, 90% of them are on the chocolate side of things, and they all know about my LittleSpace. Those in the 90% all have a very Daddy/Dom personality, so I honestly couldn't help slipping into my LittleSpace while around any of them, the more of them in one room with me made it worse, so for a few months (we were all in a D&D group together) I was in almost constant Little Mode. None of them were my sole caregiver, but they all pitched in with being a type of communal caregiving. I gave them all cute Daddy nick-names, Like Goth Dad, Papi Caliente, DaddyPool, etc. It also wasn't really discussed to begin with, at least not while I was around, they all just started doing it. Like Goth Dad would play dressup with me because he liked dressing me up. DaddyPool would play games with me, no matter how silly they were, etc. They all just took on the roles without ever really talking about it, but we all enjoyed it (when I wasn't being a brat). I didn't really think about it much because I come from a very large family, so I'm sort of used to a type of communal parenting. I think the absence of physically intimate content helps. I know if I was physically intimate with any of them, the story would have been really different. Anyway, the point is, if you feel the connection and trust with someone, as long as it is completely understood on both sides what each of you want out of your "Friendship Daddy/Little" relationship, I don't see why you shouldn't at least try. If it makes you happy (and him), shoot for the moon, yes?