chubby_vamp_kitty wrote:lordskella wrote:Does it seem rarer to anyone else to find littles of color? You hardly ever see that many black, Hispanic, or even Asian littles out there. Are they already taken? Is there a social stigma I'm unaware of? Make no mistake littles of all ethnicities are great, I just hope some are left to get to know and care for!
I actually had this discussion with some other POC who are vanilla for the most part. Some of them I've spoke with think the BeDeeSeM lifestyle is too close to slavery mentality and a lot of them don't want to participate fully because of that. I'm a POC little and I can tell you we're out here but based on the upwards of 30-40 profile views a day I get on a ddlg dating site we're not picked first by any means! Which sucks but that's the reality for most dating site statistics across the board vanilla or not! Any messages I do get are pretty raunchy and over the top usually or get there quickly after the first hello, not usually gentlemanly! I feel like it's that way because I'm "exotic" to people dating wise, you see a cute POC (because we're rare) and go nuts. It's worse if they are a adult art watcher, they expect me to be this crazy freak all the time who'll do/try anything! Which is also super deterring when it comes to meeting people for serious LTR! They usually disqualify themselves rather early in the game!
But that's just my 2 pennies
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I think your insight was very interesting and refreshing, I didn't think about the potential ramifications a slavery mentality might put on dark skin littles; especially if they're involved with a Caucasian caregiver since it seems there aren't that many poc DDs out there either. That's an interesting view that I hadn't considered. The fetishizing of skin color I had considered, but I also dismissed because I assumed since it seems like the priority was on younger, non poc littles.
I'm sorry that your profile is over looked, I think you sound like a great little and look adorable! There is value in older littles too. But I do recognize it must be hard to invest in something like this. I try to take things slow and not rush sex stuff when first vetting anybody little or not, but it seems that most people just rush right into and don't take time to build trust or share interests and get to know each other first. It's a hard juggling act for sure! Thanks for your input!
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