- 7 years ago
#30835
Hi! So I have a question, for caregivers and littles, since I'm pretty new to this. A guy and I have entered into a dd/lg relationship. It's long distance (he's six hours ahead), and that makes it tough as is. He's had one other long term little before me, so he said that he's relatively experienced in this.
My question is this (and it's gonna be super long and rambly) - How do I ask him if I'm being too needy or clingy or desperate without weirding him out? Because, at the beginning of this week we talked like all day from sunday til tuesday, then wednesday was nothing from him at all despite me messaging him. Then he apologized the next morning and had said it had been a busy day, which i get. So yesterday we talked a little and then he never replied to my messages and so i was bored and little and sent him a selfie and he never responded. so it's been almost a day and i haven't heard anything from him and i wanna message him again because i love talking to him BUT i don't wanna be needy or clingy or anything. And I don't know how to bring that up to him without seeming like i am.
I also have bad anxiety so I know that there's a huge chance that this is just my brain and everything is totally fine and him taking a day or so to reply probably isn't that big of a deal. but i just don't know how to say anything? we're pretty new in the relationship and i don't want to freak him out with anything.
so any advice is much appreciated! thank youuu!
My question is this (and it's gonna be super long and rambly) - How do I ask him if I'm being too needy or clingy or desperate without weirding him out? Because, at the beginning of this week we talked like all day from sunday til tuesday, then wednesday was nothing from him at all despite me messaging him. Then he apologized the next morning and had said it had been a busy day, which i get. So yesterday we talked a little and then he never replied to my messages and so i was bored and little and sent him a selfie and he never responded. so it's been almost a day and i haven't heard anything from him and i wanna message him again because i love talking to him BUT i don't wanna be needy or clingy or anything. And I don't know how to bring that up to him without seeming like i am.
I also have bad anxiety so I know that there's a huge chance that this is just my brain and everything is totally fine and him taking a day or so to reply probably isn't that big of a deal. but i just don't know how to say anything? we're pretty new in the relationship and i don't want to freak him out with anything.
so any advice is much appreciated! thank youuu!