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Hey guys!!! There's something that kinda eats at my brain and I have questions.
Mainly one question.
Am I still a little???
The reason I ask this is because I do things that seem..,well...not little like. I have tattoos (and do tattoos) and a piercing. Sometimes when I'm in little space I'll take the ring out and I feel a lot....well...littler, but I also smoke leaf. (Mainly for my epilepsy and my migraines) when I'm high, it's easier to be a little as well... but am I really a little? Does my interest in adult things change me being a little?
Just because you have tattoos and piercings doesn't mean you are not a little. I have tattoos myself and want to get more. For me my little space is how I am in mental and not always little things like passies or onesies. It is different for everyone. It's all in what gets you into little space despite the adult things.
Still 100% a little! It's far more about a mental state than the age aspect and if you enter that little mental state you're a little regardless of how you ever aesthetically look or what your hobbies and interests are.
yeah there is no checklist for qualifications to be a little, i wouldn't worry about it. if it makes you feel littler to take out your rings then do it, but having an interest in not little things doesn't change your littleness
At work, I'm the boss of my program and have to plan events and give briefings and be "very big" but that doesn't change the fact that I am Little. So times I get a bratty kick out of showing my Little side at work and watching how everyone makes excuses for it or just accepts it. I don't think that the things we have to do as our big side devalue or take away from our Little in any way.