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By Honeybee
#30418
Hey guys!!! There's something that kinda eats at my brain and I have questions.
Mainly one question.
Am I still a little???
The reason I ask this is because I do things that seem..,well...not little like. I have tattoos (and do tattoos) and a piercing. Sometimes when I'm in little space I'll take the ring out and I feel a lot....well...littler, but I also smoke leaf. (Mainly for my epilepsy and my migraines) when I'm high, it's easier to be a little as well... but am I really a little? Does my interest in adult things change me being a little?
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By DiaperGadget
#30419
Just because you have tattoos and piercings doesn't mean you are not a little. I have tattoos myself and want to get more. For me my little space is how I am in mental and not always little things like passies or onesies. It is different for everyone. It's all in what gets you into little space despite the adult things.


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By z0rua
#30425
Of course not! There are hardworking businessmen and people with all kinds of other hobbies and jobs and interests that who little sometimes too.
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By z0rua
#30426
I don't see an edit button, sorry for double posting; What I mean is that it does not change you being a little, or make you not one.
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By darksun
#30431
Still 100% a little! It's far more about a mental state than the age aspect and if you enter that little mental state you're a little regardless of how you ever aesthetically look or what your hobbies and interests are.
By Sleepypurplelink
#30446
yeah there is no checklist for qualifications to be a little, i wouldn't worry about it. if it makes you feel littler to take out your rings then do it, but having an interest in not little things doesn't change your littleness :)
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By LeoButterfly
#30689
At work, I'm the boss of my program and have to plan events and give briefings and be "very big" but that doesn't change the fact that I am Little. So times I get a bratty kick out of showing my Little side at work and watching how everyone makes excuses for it or just accepts it. I don't think that the things we have to do as our big side devalue or take away from our Little in any way.
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By MeronLod
#30817
Being big sometimes and being little other times doesn't mean you're not a little, it just means that you're a functioning person :P
By Deleted User 23904
#31779
Littles aren't defined by what they do or say or look like, but by how they feel in their hearts. If you feel that you are, then you are. :)
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