[Babyme83]

I just started exploring my little side with my boyfriend. Telling him some of the things I want is hard does anyone have any suggestions

[MommaWren]

Sitting down and just talking about it. I can say, being in your boyfriend's position myself, that the hardest part about the very beginning was that I wanted to give my little everything he wanted but he was so shy about talking to me about it that I felt like I was lost trying to find my own way and failing. Perhaps make a list and organize it by importance of things you want to talk about and let him know that this is something you need to discuss with him and just jump in.

[LittleBit]

I think that the advice, "Show, don't tell," may apply here. Since you're still figuring things out for yourself, just let him see the little changes you are making. You'll both get used to it together. If he asks about something, then you can explain it to him. You don't need to go into a huge discussion this early on if you don't fully understand all of your needs yet. This can be something you two explore together, just like going to a new place. Just do it and see what happens. You can do it!