I'm a Transwoman and a Caregiver (Though my experinces are more of a Service Top), so yes, we exist
. But while Kink communities can be more open-minded, and there are some really great people in the community, it still is cisnormative for the most part... with an extra helping of chasers. I would just reccomend to be patient and CAREFUL. One of the best tips for signs in someone's profile that they might be welcoming of transfolk is if they list their orientation as Pansexual, Asexual or Queer... Bisexual folk are usually more open as well, but they might not see you as the gender you identify with. And of couse, other Trans people will usually be at least sensitive to your inquiries, although unfortunately that doesn't guarentee that they're actually in to being with another transperson for whatever reason. If any transfolk want to chat or have questions, drop me a message, I promise I'll get back to you.