The switch flip thing honestly concerns me, to be honest. Having a violent reaction like that means danger to me. Having to walk on eggshells around your partner to keep from upsetting them is not good times and, as I know from experience, can kill you inside. You are not doing anything wrong. You s...

I want to make other little friends and have little playdates because sometimes it's fun just to hang out with other littles and do little things and stuff. I think it's normal to feel lonely sometimes and want to be around other people and have friends like you. Your mommy should understand if you ...

We've always called it "slowly bleeding to death". But that's not really cute. I really like grump week, though, because I am always surly during that time because everything hurts from head to toe and I just want to curl up in a ball and take a week off. There might be a way to incorporate a snail ...

I use the term "side" as a way to describe myself being little as opposed to when I have to be big and make adult decisions and work in a job because I am an adult in the eyes of the world. Am I always a little? Definitely. Inside I know that's a piece of my identity and I wasn't completely whole un...

There are a lot of things we've talked about for being without a Caregiver. Make sure you're setting time aside for you to spend time as a little. I like to color and do crafts. I have the hardest time not spending all my money when I don't have a Daddy. So I have to set rules for myself and if I fo...

I'm a lot like Birdi. The idea of being punished for something makes me panic and I will literally do anything to not be punished. My Daddy giving me a stern talking to is usually enough for me to make changes to my behaviour. That's punishment enough for me. I had a someone in my life that made me ...

Sometimes I call my Daddy Oppa. It's Korean, not Japanese. But sometimes I do. I can definitely see calling them -san. And if they're okay with it, it's a nice way to personalize it.

It would be challenging to have your little gender be different than your big gender. I can see how that would be difficult to convey to some people. Sadly, being human lends to communication issues, especially when you consider the average reading comprehension of the general public isn't very high...

That actually helped a lot. I did get mad at myself for not being able to "snap out of it" and just go find him, especially when people were giving me really weird looks. I'll have to try and find some calm down things because it was like my brain wasn't listening to me and my big voice was very far...

I had a scary thing happen today while I was at the store with my Daddy. I saw a rack of books that had local history and ghost stories and I stopped to look. I only looked for a second or two and when I looked up, Daddy was gone. I looked around the area but I didn't see him and we talked about loo...